If it's legitimate depression, she should be open to some counseling. If not, she's full of shit and she doesn't want to stay in the relationship. And if that's the case, like I said before man, just step. If you don't, she will start to use your feelings to her advantage.
Let that trifling bitch go... Then go bang all her friends and sisters, you will be over it in no time bro. Step up your game man. Why let somebody dictate how you feel. You put yourself in the situation to begin with. Get laid and it will be out of your system so fast. Putting handcuffs on your girl never works. Be a man, bang hotties as you like, let your lady interests do whatever they feel like too. No more tensions, no more handcuffs, just sexual freedom as nature intends. Counseling is a waste of time that could be spent sport fucking co-eds. Separate amicably tell her you will always love her, tell her it is nature taking its course, you will always care for her just as you still love all your other ex's at some level. You can get over this quickly and not be stuck in a shitty tension jealous rage for the next 5 years. Good luck.
It's not either. It's "I am stressed out by the demands of my life right now and the grass looks greener." I have experience with caring for a disabled loved one. It's incredibly stressful and took a toll on my marriage as well. We survived. This is a lot to deal with in your mid 20's, but that's the life you were dealt. Sounds like you're the grown up here and ready to deal with it. She isn't (right now)
That is absolutley code for" Im into someone else"...bet. If shes making any or all excused to end it, let her. fuck her
thank you one of the best replies , I had only thought of marriage counseling which I knew she wouldn't go for but maybe family therapy would be better ill try to talk to her about that as soon as she seems approachable about it right now were just taking care of our daughter and trying to catch up on bills they got really behind this month and that stress isn't helping at all its been a real fucking perfect storm lately
What level of care does your disabled child require if it's not too personal , the reason I ask is because my wife of 40 yrs is severely disabled & I took training to become her full time care giver & retired to take care of her .
my daughter has "multiple mental disabilities" sensory processing disorder, sever autism , she is not deaf or completely mute but she can not speak idk how to explain it really she is not physically disabled but no dr has ever been able to give a diagnosis they can't believe she went 20+ minutes without breathing and still has any brain function I completely agree that my wife is overwhelmed and stressed and that's the root of this she takes her to therapy or school everyday she's a great mom I could not have asked for a better mother for my child but she's also so intent on being a good mom she makes the stress on herself worse
well, this was rude!!!
regret
If your got some shame and bad decisions on too then we have a night planned!
It sounds like you guys work your asses off providing a good home for your child , somehow you guys should find a way to take a break from it all & just chill together , maybe have family take care of your child & get away for a week to take a load off .
nah, i quit drinking.
I wish we could more than anything but we haven't seen each other all day and she just came home said hey and went to the bedroom to pack a bowl and stay in there how the fuck am I supposed to get her out somewher or fuck the shit out of her when the tensions so bad she doesn't even want to be in the same room in hoping this will die down over the next couple days as we have no choice but to live together for now
GAk.
THIS! @panhead I understand where you're at COMPLETELY!! You are a good man for taking your vows seriously AND remembering to treat your wife like a woman and not just a sick wife. Bless you.
Your right about support groups being very helpful , the MS support group my wife & I belong to is a great place for information , sometimes just being with other folks who have the same issues as you helps alot more than anything else .
