Thoughts on this incident? Girl v. Guy fight

[Padawanbater2]

That is sooooooooo not true pada , people are responsible for the words they choose to use , if their choice of words is slanderous or violent then they should be prepared to be be put in check .

Most loudmouths count on everybody walking away & are suprised , wondering wtf happened when they get their bell rung.

Would you allow some loud mouth woman or man to scream at your wife or threaten her ?

You're talking about something different, threatening or screaming isn't the same thing as someone saying something, like in Yessica's example that the sex was bad or I have a little dick or something. That wouldn't mean anything to me, not even a little bit. Someone gets in my face and yells or threatens me one of us will probably end up bleeding and/or on the ground

 

[mr sunshine]

 

[Singlemalt]

who was the little dude getting licks in?

 

[panhead]

You're talking about something different, threatening or screaming isn't the same thing as someone saying something, like in Yessica's example that the sex was bad or I have a little dick or something. That wouldn't mean anything to me, not even a little bit. Someone gets in my face and yells or threatens me one of us will probably end up bleeding and/or on the ground

Yup i missed something somewhere & didnt see she was talking about silly shit , i thought we were talking about violent confrontations , my bad .

 

[Hepheastus420]

In memory of Dyna. Miss you, bro...

Made my fuckin day

TBH there is really no need for fighting and like sunni said there is always something that will drop you ..
See you can train till the cows come home but this day n age Smith and Wesson will take you out with a blink of a eye . and that is the sad truth in daylight or at night.. millions of people packing
for instance if your in Texas and yes even girl comes at you as a threat to attack you can shoot her in the head and walk away no jail time
“Stand Your Ground” laws that authorize deadly force in self-defense anywhere a person has a legal right to be, without a duty to mitigate the harm by attempting retreat. The Trayvon Martin killing and manyotherfatal shootings are raising deeply troubling questions about what sort of civilian vigilantism, discrimination, and arbitrary judgment is authorized by laws that put discretion into the hands of civilians. just be careful if your starting something cause remember this bad boy will win View attachment 3442812

Sure guns are dangerous but not if I punch the bullet at an angle mid-flight.. duh

 

[mr sunshine]

who was the little dude getting licks in?

Probably their pimp.

 

[Singlemalt]

lol^^^^
Yeah, he was a cocky lil fucker

 

[shishkaboy]

Would you allow some loud mouth woman or man to scream at your wife or threaten her ?

Well you cant shoot em.
Even stand your ground wouldnt permit that.
That is why you train in self defense, so you dont need/use a gun.
From self defense training comes combative sports, a way of testing your skills.

The art I claim as my own came from a people that were being oppressed by armed and armored bullies. They needed a way to keep their villages safe. So my views on weapons and self defense are a little biased.

 

[panhead]

Well you cant shoot em.
Even stand your ground wouldnt permit that.
That is why you train in self defense, so you dont need/use a gun.
From self defense training comes combative sports, a way of testing your skills.

The art I claim as my own came from a people that were being oppressed by armed and armored bullies. They needed a way to keep their villages safe. So my views on weapons and self defense are a little biased.

Dude , wtf am i gonna train in ? Gumming my food ? Im 63 & ready for water aerobics,learning gun saftey is 1,000 times easier than becomming a competent fighter for most people .

Were in our 60's & my wife's disabled , i'd bash a punk with my bare hands in the 70's & 80's then make him lick my boot but i cant fight no more , people shouldnt have to run away or move to a different area to aviod thugs , moving dont help either , were in the best neighborhood in Michigan & are targeted by gypsy con men posing as home improvement companys every summer & thats why we have 2 trained attack dogs roam the gated property to keep em from even stopping at our home ,my neighbors were victims of home invasion by fake police who shot him at his door .

This home invasion happened 6 houses away from our home , thats why i sit with a weapon at all times within the home .

 

[Yessica...]

You're talking about something different, threatening or screaming isn't the same thing as someone saying something, like in Yessica's example that the sex was bad or I have a little dick or something. That wouldn't mean anything to me, not even a little bit. Someone gets in my face and yells or threatens me one of us will probably end up bleeding and/or on the ground

Hey my evil words were read from a diary. So plucked right from my brain.

The ex raped my diary - so again, it was his own fucking fault. But those words stung.

And they were true. He was terrible in bed. If you're secure with your sexual prowess, then those words would not hurt you and you would know they were only said to get a reaction.

But what about when they are true words?

Words hurt. True ones.

 

[Yessica...]

Dude , wtf am i gonna train in ? Gumming my food ? Im 63 & ready for water aerobics,learning gun saftey is 1,000 times easier than becomming a competent fighter for most people

Hahahaha

I love aquafit with the olds!

Although 63....pffft - you're just a young pup.

My dad was born in 1926. He's doesn't know dick about guns though because this is Canada and he's not a hunter. But I think he would give a young punk a run for his money in hand to hand combat.

That dude is in better shape now than a 30 year old. That quintuple bipass he got in 2009 really turned him into a cyborg.

Anywho - that was super funny. I really hope you do water aerobics. I always love it when the older men are in the class too!

 

[Padawanbater2]

But what about when they are true words?

Words hurt. True ones.

I guess people just react differently. If someone wants to say something with the intention of hurting me, they'll get one sentence out before they're cut off completely and forgot about forever

 

[Yessica...]

I guess people just react differently. If someone wants to say something with the intention of hurting me, they'll get one sentence out before they're cut off completely and forgot about forever

This is interesting.

Well what about verbal fights? With girlfriends?

Nothing is ever said that bothers you? I don't mean yelling fights.

But I don't know, I've had boyfriends tell me that I was doing something and that unbeknownst to me, that thing was making them upset or unhappy. If it was something reasonable, I'd change it.

If it was something unreasonable I would say "fuck that" and just do it more. hahahah

 

[Padawanbater2]

This is interesting.

Well what about verbal fights? With girlfriends?

Nothing is ever said that bothers you? I don't mean yelling fights.

But I don't know, I've had boyfriends tell me that I was doing something and that unbeknownst to me, that thing was making them upset or unhappy. If it was something reasonable, I'd change it.

If it was something unreasonable I would say "fuck that" and just do it more. hahahah

The last girlfriend that said something that hurt me was when I was 17 a decade ago, and I think being so young had a lot to do with it. Robotic is a good way to describe the relationships since, I don't like putting up with bullshit, especially from the girlfriends I've had. One wanted to use me as her own personal microphone and talk all her problems at me without hearing suggestions for solutions. That got old pretty quick.

What hurts me the most is when it comes from family. I can cut anybody out immediately if they say something hurtful, not the case with family members

 

[Yessica...]

The last girlfriend that said something that hurt me was when I was 17 a decade ago, and I think being so young had a lot to do with it. Robotic is a good way to describe the relationships since, I don't like putting up with bullshit, especially from the girlfriends I've had. One wanted to use me as her own personal microphone and talk all her problems at me without hearing suggestions for solutions. That got old pretty quick.

What hurts me the most is when it comes from family. I can cut anybody out immediately if they say something hurtful, not the case with family members

My friends and family are pretty fucking cool. They don't say shit to hurt me. They suggest things to help - that's always nice.

The worst things that have ever been said about me, came from myself. You can't have lived the life I have led, and pretend that you loved yourself the whole time. I hated myself, for a really long time.

And the shit I would say to me? Daaaaaaaaamn GINA - someone needs to body slam that crazy bitch! What a cunt. hahahahaha

You kind of keep your heart and feelings locked up tighter than Fort Knox, don't cha?

I'm the opposite, when I fall in luuuuuuurve. I get all gooey in love all over your face. Pretty open person. It leaves you open to pain as well.

But I'll take the pain if I get more of the love. Those fucking endorphins are the best fucking drugs. Lurve drugs.

 

[Padawanbater2]

You kind of keep your heart and feelings locked up tighter than Fort Knox, don't cha?

I'm the opposite, when I fall in luuuuuuurve. I get all gooey in love all over your face. Pretty open person. It leaves you open to pain as well.

But I'll take the pain if I get more of the love. Those fucking endorphins are the best fucking drugs. Lurve drugs.

I have pretty big commitment and trust issues. I'm not comfortable giving somebody else so much control over me

 

[bu$hleaguer]

Hey my evil words were read from a diary. So plucked right from my brain.

The ex raped my diary - so again, it was his own fucking fault. But those words stung.

And they were true. He was terrible in bed. If you're secure with your sexual prowess, then those words would not hurt you and you would know they were only said to get a reaction.

But what about when they are true words?

Words hurt. True ones.

Not sure what the fuck you guys are talking about, but it sounds like you have a computer diary? Not completely the dudes fault- if you're always hunched over your keyboard typing personal shit about stuff, he's going to want to look, right? Poor guy. I'm just shocked you needed to scribe what was floating around in your head- like you wouldn't remember how much he sucked in bed?

 

[Steve French]

Those psychedelic sides were tripping me out. And I'm pretty sure I still in the middle of my third decade haven't reached the age of most of those fuckers in that high school classroom. But I gotta say, there is a limit to horseshit.

 

[Yessica...]

Not sure what the fuck you guys are talking about, but it sounds like you have a computer diary? Not completely the dudes fault- if you're always hunched over your keyboard typing personal shit about stuff, he's going to want to look, right? Poor guy. I'm just shocked you needed to scribe what was floating around in your head- like you wouldn't remember how much he sucked in bed?

My e-mail was my "computer diary". He broke into my phone, and read all my e-mails that were written by ME, and sent to ME.

I write down shit that's going on in my head. Always have. Maybe you've noticed, I write A LOT. hahaha

Oh, and all the e-mails were super harsh because I was convincing myself I needed to break up with him because he was never going to be able to make me happy. The sex part was just part of it. I had written, pages and pages and pages of emails. Many e-mails. I still don't know which ones he read.

This was also 2 boyfriends back, and in 2010. hahah

 

[shishkaboy]

Dude , wtf am i gonna train in ? Gumming my food ? Im 63 & ready for water aerobics,learning gun saftey is 1,000 times easier than becomming a competent fighter for most people .

Firstly, no disrespect intended. Just sharing my opinions.

But fwiw, easier is not always better.

I live in a way worse neighborhood than you do and dont need a gun or attack dogs.
A few years ago I was robbed at gun point, totally random. Didnt know these guys or how they even knew I had weed on me. I was walking down the street alone when I saw to guys coming my way.I paid them no mind.

The next thing I knew there was a gun pointed at my stomach. I tried to tell them I didnt have anything, but they wanted to see what I had anyway. At this point I have been training in self defense for about 2 years and was sure that in a 1 vs 1 I could handle either one of these guys, but the gun.

The dude with the gun in his left hand takes him right hand and sticks it deep into my pocket looking for loot. That is when it all kicked in, I realized that one hand was busy and the gun hand was not pointed at me and that I could control the gun dude easily with his hand trapped in my pocket.

When the other dude found the little 14 grams of Pineapple express I had he screamed "yes".It wasnt a hit, it was a robbery and the best way out was to just give it up.

When I got back home to my wife I was broken. I felt like crap, I mean all this training and when the time is right I cant even use it. While explaining the situation to her in a reenactment she discovered that the only way out of that situation was the way it happened or with at least one casualty.

I say all that to say this, even tho those guys were "thugs" that were robbing me, I dont want them to die.

I look at robberies as an "occupational hazard".