I need some advice :(

Stoney McFried

Stoney McFried

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ANyway.The only serious advice I can offer?"that which does not kill us makes us stronger." You'll survive.And you'll probably find the one.Gotta kiss a lot of frogs before ya find your prince(or princess).
 
smokablunt16

smokablunt16

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Lol i done even listen to dave..just there to party..which was probally a mistake as well...very true saying though..Thanks Stoney..
 
mahlye

mahlye

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smokablunt16 said:
@Mahlye----How long has it been since she drank? Im on the same boat with the whole girl on girl thing...If its two random girls then so be it..AWESOME...but if its my girlfriend and someone else I'd flip shit..A couple of weeks ago I saw her doing a triple kiss with two other girls all drunk about it and FLIPPED!! She didnt see the big deal but in a way i looked at it like some sort of cheating?

I hope everyhting works out for ya bro but you just gotta hope for the best but expect the worst...
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this happened in the beginning of June. No alcohol since, and we're always together so I know she doesn't do it behind my back. Yeah bro...she did it in front of my friends. I mean, when she started talking about wanting to do that I was hurt because I was thinking, "what about me?" then she was actually the one to ask the girl to make out and initiated the entire thing. I saw it as cheating and knew alcohol and her didn't mix and I told her if she drank then I was scared of her cheating and would be gone, so she stopped. now she's telling me she wants to marry me and stuff...idk, hopefully we will but I try not to get my hopes up.

and dude expecting the worst dooms a relationship. I trust her because she showed me I could, she trusts me too. I'd rather trust her then be paranoid and scared. maybe you should do the same next time you bag a bitch.
 
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rkm

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If its over then let it be over. Time to move on, dont have that one last sex together either. That just fuels the fire, you have sex then all is better and the next thing you know it starts repeating again. It is cool to be friends if you can and who knows give it some time and you both some time to mature and you never know what the future holds.
 
smokablunt16

smokablunt16

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well that didnt take long...she called

She had a really bad panic attack last night and told her mom to call me at 2:30am for me to come over but my phone was off....She called this morning and we talked for a little bit like normal and then out of nowhere she wanted to get some lunch for us so I did...I went to her house to eat and when i walked in her mom was there and gave me a kiss on the head saying shes glad t have me back...After we were done eating she asked me to come sit next to her and she gave me the biggest hug in the world and we agreed that if we both want this to work with both have to make some serious changes...which we both totally are going to do...I love this girl and Im willing to make some changes in the way I talk to her, and the way we handle our disagreements as long as she will to and were on the same boat...Im kinda pissed she called though because after all your guys' help i wouldve been strong through all of this break-up and been on my way..Like i said though, i guess every little thing happens for a reason..
 
mahlye

mahlye

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yeah man this will make the relationship stronger, hopefully. that's great though, I'm happy for you. if you need advice def. let me know, every girl I've ever dated has said they couldn't believe a guy like me existed, I am one of a kind, etc. I guess I'm good with woman, so let me know if anything comes up
 
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rkm

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smokablunt16 said:
well that didnt take long...she called

She had a really bad panic attack last night and told her mom to call me at 2:30am for me to come over but my phone was off....She called this morning and we talked for a little bit like normal and then out of nowhere she wanted to get some lunch for us so I did...I went to her house to eat and when i walked in her mom was there and gave me a kiss on the head saying shes glad t have me back...After we were done eating she asked me to come sit next to her and she gave me the biggest hug in the world and we agreed that if we both want this to work with both have to make some serious changes...which we both totally are going to do...I love this girl and Im willing to make some changes in the way I talk to her, and the way we handle our disagreements as long as she will to and were on the same boat...Im kinda pissed she called though because after all your guys' help i wouldve been strong through all of this break-up and been on my way..Like i said though, i guess every little thing happens for a reason..
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Its good that you are going to try to work things out, just keep focused on what you want and dont want.
 
dos lunge

dos lunge

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rkm said:
Its good that you are going to try to work things out, just keep focused on what you want and dont want.
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good advice rkm. you should be sure of what you want out of the relationship, or at least have some idea what you want out of it. You might want to ask her what she wants out of it too and make sure she is honest. Me and my girlfriend broke up because we had very different wants and werent willing to change. sometimes things dont work out exactly like we want, but sometimes they do, which is why we try so hard.
 
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rkm

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dos lunge said:
good advice rkm. you should be sure of what you want out of the relationship, or at least have some idea what you want out of it. You might want to ask her what she wants out of it too and make sure she is honest. Me and my girlfriend broke up because we had very different wants and werent willing to change. sometimes things dont work out exactly like we want, but sometimes they do, which is why we try so hard.
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My only advice is do not take any shit.....from anyone.
 
mahlye

mahlye

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I'm just joking stony. I honestly never refer to women as bitches in person, unless i'm with my girlfriend.
 
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