Club 600

DST

DST

Well-Known Member
Opinions. So my best friend in Amsterdam has 2 girls. One is of the age he has just let her go to the playground on her own. She hangs with a group of kids with the oldest about 8....she is 7. My friend notices 2 young lads about 13 hanging in the playpark with them. Asks his wife who says they are ok. They are from around the corner and were nice to bring their daughter home when she had a broken bike or something. Next day my mate sees his girl at the park alone with one of the boys (who are twins with learning difficulties btw). He sneaks up to them and listens to their conversation then hears the word for Willie in Dutch. Intervenes to ask wtf is going on. The 2 boys have been videoing themselves with the others playing truth or dare....With the dare being to touch their you know what's. ...or at least touch their shorts there. Mate obviously went crazy. Phoned all parents from his square and the boys parents. If the boys are seen in the park he's going to call the police. I told him I would have already called social services I think. ...what you guys/girls reckon? These things imo need nipped in the bud. These 2 lads are a bit slow so their peers reject them.and they hang with young kids....They are at hormonal age as well. Just wrong.
 
O

oldman60

Well-Known Member
DST said:
Opinions. So my best friend in Amsterdam has 2 girls. One is of the age he has just let her go to the playground on her own. She hangs with a group of kids with the oldest about 8....she is 7. My friend notices 2 young lads about 13 hanging in the playpark with them. Asks his wife who says they are ok. They are from around the corner and were nice to bring their daughter home when she had a broken bike or something. Next day my mate sees his girl at the park alone with one of the boys (who are twins with learning difficulties btw). He sneaks up to them and listens to their conversation then hears the word for Willie in Dutch. Intervenes to ask wtf is going on. The 2 boys have been videoing themselves with the others playing truth or dare....With the dare being to touch their you know what's. ...or at least touch their shorts there. Mate obviously went crazy. Phoned all parents from his square and the boys parents. If the boys are seen in the park he's going to call the police. I told him I would have already called social services I think. ...what you guys/girls reckon? These things imo need nipped in the bud. These 2 lads are a bit slow so their peers reject them.and they hang with young kids....They are at hormonal age as well. Just wrong.
Click to expand...
I agree with you, it has to be dealt with now. Tactfully but directly he should speak with involved parents
and the boys parents. If the videos warrant it by all means notify the proper authorities.
This could blossom into a very serious situation.
Good luck and he should be vigilant.

:peace:
 
DST

DST

Well-Known Member
This is what I said to my mate Oldman. He spoke to the boys parents (the mother anyway, she's a single parent if I remember correctly). But my point to him was, "ok, so they don't come round the park in front of your house, but they go to another one and do the same thing to another kid, but then it escalates etc"....I thought he was moving the problem along. But then I guess he might not want to drag his daughter through social workers questioning her about the incident. All the parents in the street are now aware, but these boys need additional help if you ask me. Mate said their mother looked run ragged! These 2 boys are 13 and hitting puberty.....christ, I lost my cherry at that age. It just doesn't bear thinking about. And there was me about a year ago giving him grief for not letting his eldest daughter play outside without him breathing down her neck.

And true Don, I think smartphones for kids under 16 (or possibly even 18) should be monitored or even banned (I say that just now, wait till Yin is that age, he'll be chewing my arm off for one). Why should a boy that age have video equipment on them. It's crazy when you think about it.

One of my nephews was kicked out of his school for his mate posting a video on Facebook, 3 boys prancing around talking about girls and calling another boy in their class a poof, lol. Worlds a nutty place.
 
O

oldman60

Well-Known Member
DST said:
This is what I said to my mate Oldman. He spoke to the boys parents (the mother anyway, she's a single parent if I remember correctly). But my point to him was, "ok, so they don't come round the park in front of your house, but they go to another one and do the same thing to another kid, but then it escalates etc"....I thought he was moving the problem along. But then I guess he might not want to drag his daughter through social workers questioning her about the incident. All the parents in the street are now aware, but these boys need additional help if you ask me. Mate said their mother looked run ragged! These 2 boys are 13 and hitting puberty.....christ, I lost my cherry at that age. It just doesn't bear thinking about. And there was me about a year ago giving him grief for not letting his eldest daughter play outside without him breathing down her neck.

And true Don, I think smartphones for kids under 16 (or possibly even 18) should be monitored or even banned (I say that just now, wait till Yin is that age, he'll be chewing my arm off for one). Why should a boy that age have video equipment on them. It's crazy when you think about it.

One of my nephews was kicked out of his school for his mate posting a video on Facebook, 3 boys prancing around talking about girls and calling another boy in their class a poof, lol. Worlds a nutty place.
Click to expand...
I would think hard about going to the authorities, that is dangerous behavior.
What happens if they grab a girl and since they have been in trouble already, get rid of the
"evidence" so they don't get in trouble! you have to think about the adolescent mentality.
I would still go to what ever Social Welfare or police agency keep my girls close for a long time.
I have a 13 year old grand daughter that lives upstairs from me and all the neighbor boys worry more
about me than they do her parents, I maybe a bit overprotective but I'd rather be safe than sorry.

:peace:
 
budolskie

budolskie

Well-Known Member
Well got the stuff out for my nft to begin the project
So this is what I have IMG_20150824_142224.jpg
IMG_20150824_142251.jpg



So all I. Think I need now is 2 stop caps for bottom end of pipes, a ec meter, a water pump and an air pump

Then the frame to build with metal stud for walls and my nutes!

Out yous guys see missing don't hesitate to remind me on haha
 
Enwhysea

Enwhysea

Well-Known Member
The baby is not here yet and I'm already a worried parent. I'm young just 25 but if it was me and I had a chance to talk to the mom of those two kids I'd try and take them under my wing and give them a role model to look up, especially when there going through puberty and have easy access to the internet. The last thing you'd probably want is those kids thinking the shit they see on the net is how the world really works just my quarter century worth of .02 cent. (:
 
Mr.Head

Mr.Head

Well-Known Member
That's a messed up situation sorry your friend has to deal with that.

I agree with enwhysea, they need a male role model, especially if they are hitting puberty. Someone needs to teach them how to be responsible respectful men.

Certainly sounds like the mother and the children all need help. Hopefully the situation gets resolved without any further incident. The whole thing needs to be nipped in the bud.
 
supchaka

supchaka

Well-Known Member
That reminds me of a situation I had with one of my sons. He was 4 or 5 and we were at an arcade. He was standing at the glass case looking over the toys you can get with tickets. I was standing several feet back from him just watching and letting him do his thing. These 2 older boys, I dunno maybe 10-12 years old came up to the counter as well. One motions to the other like he's slamming my sons face into the glass and they start laughing about it. Man I flipped. It's like someone turns a switch and you aren't you anymore. Annnnd I'll just end the story there :)
 
jigfresh

jigfresh

Well-Known Member
I third NYC. Would you have liked the authorities called on you DST for losing your virginity at 13 or 14? I'm not saying it's the same situation, but would authorities really help the situation, or just make it worse. Those boys' mom needs help. Someone needs to show them boys right from wrong and care about them.

In my head getting authorities involved always makes the situation worse. Maybe not for your friend, or his girls, but for those boys, for their mom, and for society in general.
 
Flaming Pie

Flaming Pie

Well-Known Member
supchaka said:
That reminds me of a situation I had with one of my sons. He was 4 or 5 and we were at an arcade. He was standing at the glass case looking over the toys you can get with tickets. I was standing several feet back from him just watching and letting him do his thing. These 2 older boys, I dunno maybe 10-12 years old came up to the counter as well. One motions to the other like he's slamming my sons face into the glass and they start laughing about it. Man I flipped. It's like someone turns a switch and you aren't you anymore. Annnnd I'll just end the story there :)
Click to expand...
I hate having to correct the behavior of children who aren't my own.

But when the safety of my daughter is at stake I will be the other kids mommy for a sec.
 
BeastGrow

BeastGrow

Well-Known Member
edit: now that i think about it probably talk to the parents first and if that doesnt work then talk to the kid. Tell teh girls to stay away from them too. There is no reason they need to be hanging out.
 
Last edited:
O

oldman60

Well-Known Member
Enwhysea said:
The baby is not here yet and I'm already a worried parent. I'm young just 25 but if it was me and I had a chance to talk to the mom of those two kids I'd try and take them under my wing and give them a role model to look up, especially when there going through puberty and have easy access to the internet. The last thing you'd probably want is those kids thinking the shit they see on the net is how the world really works just my quarter century worth of .02 cent. (:
Click to expand...
Kid I was 19 when my first was born 25 for my second, it's emotionally rough the first time
at any age! just follow your instincts and when in doubt ask someone you respect and has
gone through it.
Relax and enjoy the experience, you only have the first one once.
Hugs and good times are in your near future enjoy. :hug:

:peace:
 
DST

DST

Well-Known Member
Sure is a difficult one to call. I think NYC nailed it though. My first reaction was fuk those dude's, but they are also having 8t rough with a single parent family and learning issues.
And I wouldn't have suggested calling social and yelling rape. Seems these wee guys are in the system with respect to learning so to bring the attention to their teachers or something may have benefits.

And Jig....twas an older girl that showed me the ropes lol. She was my sex mentor growing up. Lunchtime sex was a cool thing as a teenager :) she had an older boyfriend as well lol....
 
Mr.Head

Mr.Head

Well-Known Member

DST said:
Sure is a difficult one to call. I think NYC nailed it though. My first reaction was fuk those dude's, but they are also having 8t rough with a single parent family and learning issues.
And I wouldn't have suggested calling social and yelling rape. Seems these wee guys are in the system with respect to learning so to bring the attention to their teachers or something may have benefits.

And Jig....twas an older girl that showed me the ropes lol. She was my sex mentor growing up. Lunchtime sex was a cool thing as a teenager :) she had an older boyfriend as well lol....
Click to expand...
Seems so much more acceptable when the girl is older :)
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top