Virginity

xmissxaliex

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haha dude. see you probably won't be a virgin much longer look at all these dudes commenting your lips!! thats a BIG compliment hah
 

sarah22

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welll i think your lips are cool, obviously not like that but i do gotta say i like the color of the gloss! lol
thanks! lol its honestly this cheap wal mart lip gloss..but i love the colour and its soooooo glassy and shiny.
i didnt really intend to get a ton of attention about my lips........i was really just copying stoney (sorry dude). i was getting called a guy in threads...so i put up my lips so people would know...
 

Orchid Man

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Well i waited until i was 22 when i got married. i know sounds gay but when i look back on it. it was beautiful. when my friends talk about theirs its always i met this hoe...
 

Stoney McFried

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Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.And my lipstick comes from walmart too...rimmel royal red.
thanks! lol its honestly this cheap wal mart lip gloss..but i love the colour and its soooooo glassy and shiny.
i didnt really intend to get a ton of attention about my lips........i was really just copying stoney (sorry dude). i was getting called a guy in threads...so i put up my lips so people would know...
 

bleezyg420

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gracias amigo. They're normally whiter in sunlight or a real picture, not my shitty mac web cam. I keep up with my hygiene daily. I need to attract them hotties, ya know?
 

xmissxaliex

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thanks! lol its honestly this cheap wal mart lip gloss..but i love the colour and its soooooo glassy and shiny.
i didnt really intend to get a ton of attention about my lips........i was really just copying stoney (sorry dude). i was getting called a guy in threads...so i put up my lips so people would know...
haha walmart, i hate walmart but at least their prices on makeup are cheaper though i don't buy it from there alot. lol hahaha why are people so rude an make accusations? lol yeah well THEY know now.hah
 

EarthlyPassions

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I carry a v-card.
I mean to, because I'm abstinent. I won't be having sex till I'm married.
In my eyes, it's not a thing to be embarrassed about. When I was little, my mom told me that it was the best, most precious gift you could give to your husband. Then, in my private Christian school, we were all told that sex outside of marriage is a sin.

Now that I know I'm a lesbian, it's more of a political fasting/ societal approval thing.

My family is VERY conservative, and while the majority of them know that I'm gay, it doesn't really 'count' until you have sex. Even my high-school counselor was upset when I told her that I'm gay, but cheered right up the moment I explained I'm abstinent.
Also, I like to be able to let people know that I'm waiting till marriage, so they can say. "But wait!, gays can't get married!" and then people can see that there's more to gay marriage than tax-cuts, there's emotional bonds that people have to the term marriage.
I don't want to wait till the day I say "I do" for a Civil Union. What a slap in the face! I did the sacrifice, held to my beliefs, said no, I want the real thing! Along with the tax-cuts, hospital visiting times, and various other benefits that 'Marriage' gets, but Civil Unions do not.
 

xmissxaliex

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I carry a v-card.
I mean to, because I'm abstinent. I won't be having sex till I'm married.
In my eyes, it's not a thing to be embarrassed about. When I was little, my mom told me that it was the best, most precious gift you could give to your husband. Then, in my private Christian school, we were all told that sex outside of marriage is a sin.

Now that I know I'm a lesbian, it's more of a political fasting/ societal approval thing.

My family is VERY conservative, and while the majority of them know that I'm gay, it doesn't really 'count' until you have sex. Even my high-school counselor was upset when I told her that I'm gay, but cheered right up the moment I explained I'm abstinent.
Also, I like to be able to let people know that I'm waiting till marriage, so they can say. "But wait!, gays can't get married!" and then people can see that there's more to gay marriage than tax-cuts, there's emotional bonds that people have to the term marriage.
I don't want to wait till the day I say "I do" for a Civil Union. What a slap in the face! I did the sacrifice, held to my beliefs, said no, I want the real thing! Along with the tax-cuts, hospital visiting times, and various other benefits that 'Marriage' gets, but Civil Unions do not.

see, im penocoastle, but if you know that he's/she's the one, i think its okay. i know im gonna be with my boyfriend. almost 10 months and no breaking up at all.
its cool that you still have your virginity, wait for someone until you just know it means alot more to that person that you waited and gave something HUGE to them, its an emotional bond.
i hope most of them accept you. its sad when people are so close minded, they don't see what others see because they think that they are right.
 

EarthlyPassions

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see, im penocoastle, but if you know that he's/she's the one, i think its okay. i know im gonna be with my boyfriend. almost 10 months and no breaking up at all.
its cool that you still have your virginity, wait for someone until you just know it means alot more to that person that you waited and gave something HUGE to them, its an emotional bond.
i hope most of them accept you. its sad when people are so close minded, they don't see what others see because they think that they are right.
My family loves me, and I love them, gayness is the mouse sitting in the middle of the room. Until, I become 'active' with dating and such, then it would become a day-glow elephant.
On the bright side, my cousins don't care a bit. So, as time passes, people become more accepting, things are getting better everyday.
 

xmissxaliex

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thats good, theres nothing worse then even family abandoning you. it happened to my cousin, she was into other females and they totally outcasted her (i didn't she stays with me sometimes) but its just sad.
 

Stoney McFried

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And now, for the other side of the coin.I thought my virginity was so important.I waited till I was 18, sure, that whoever I gave it to would think it was wonderful,and that I would be so happy....bullshit.He was a dick,and I was a fool.I put too much importance into the meaning of virginity, and sex...all it is, in the end, is friction.I'm glad I got a callus over that particular weak spot of mine.
 

EarthlyPassions

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And now, for the other side of the coin.I thought my virginity was so important.I waited till I was 18, sure, that whoever I gave it to would think it was wonderful,and that I would be so happy....bullshit.He was a dick,and I was a fool.I put too much importance into the meaning of virginity, and sex...all it is, in the end, is friction.I'm glad I got a callus over that particular weak spot of mine.
That's a shame, I wish it could have at least been worth it for you.
As a lesbian the word 'virginty' has a lot of wiggle room. Does that mean no vagina/penis contact? If so, I'll be a virgin forever. Intact hymen? If so, I'm screwed. My hymen was gone by way of vibrator at 12.

I define sex as contact with gentilia in such a way that STD's could be spread.
For lesbians, this would be going down. But all the other things you can do, kissing, using toys, fondling, fingering, and strap-ons (as long as the butch has undies on underneath) are game.
For straight people this would be very restricting, but for this lesbian, it includes all of my favorite things. (Except the undies under the strap-on, maybe, that would be annoying I'm sure.)

The value attached to female virginity was used as a way to castrate female sexuality for a LONG time, but that's simply inexcusable these days. I support women demonstrating pleasure in sex, without being 'lowered' in the eyes of society.
I retain my virginity because I know it has meaning for my family, and I like to try to avoid sinning where I can. Not because I believe it makes me worth more as a women.
 

xmissxaliex

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And now, for the other side of the coin.I thought my virginity was so important.I waited till I was 18, sure, that whoever I gave it to would think it was wonderful,and that I would be so happy....bullshit.He was a dick,and I was a fool.I put too much importance into the meaning of virginity, and sex...all it is, in the end, is friction.I'm glad I got a callus over that particular weak spot of mine.
thats really sad im sorry... its sad how it happens to some people and it makes me feel lucky but feel bad that some people didn't have it go the way they thought it would.
 
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