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I'd like to change my answer from the beginning of this thread (back in Feb.) As part of a huge cleansing I stopped shaving, wearing makeup, dying my hair, etc. I'm so fucking sick of trying to live up to some stupid ass standard that has been imposed by society and big corporations spending billions a year to get women to THINK they need to buy a ton of shyt to make them 'feel like a women'. Shaving started in the 1920's when Vogue and Vanity Faire told women they needed to shave their underarms to be sexy, and it's been down hill ever since. Then when shorter skirts came into fashion they said you had to shave your legs, then the thighs. Now the widespread availability of porn has led women to think they need to shave their pubes to be sexy to a man. Personally I had had ENOUGH- women are all sexy and are all beautiful and our worth is not based on how 'attractive we are to males'. I have to say it has saved me a fortune thus far money wise and TIME WISE- as I was obsessed with shaving everything somehow equating it to being 'sexy and clean'. Let me tell you- if a women bathes regularly she is clean, regardless of the hair there.. I am so glad to have a real man who could care less and finds me sexy naturally. I as a women do not feel the need to alter myself any longer to fill some unfulfilled void- I love myself the way I am, and I am thankful for what I have instead of trying to strive for some fake image of what someone else thinks I am supposed to be.
right on...i agree with that, just think women got by just fine before the advent of cover girl, and cosmos telling yall b.s ,men like this ,this men that.
shit if i may quote kat williams, ""...aint no muther-fucker been ready to fuck ,got the condom on ,and been like whats up with your toe-nail, bitch is that plum and red, ,tsk tsk, i cant even believe this im out of here""
the little shit come on
no bullshit finding a woman in todays society to be with is very hard for us.
because of these
i have to look out for
fake hair
fake nails
fake eyes
push up bra.
padded bra.
make-up.
and photoshop.
because of these thing being done by almost the average woman, how do you know what your seeing is what your getting.
what ever happened to focusing on the mind a conversation.
{i want a woman whos going to focus more on her mind than her sexyness.. to me nothing is more of a turn on then a good conversation. some word play...
looks fade, and they wont be around for ever.
nothing wrong with a little sexyness, but i need more than a air head.}
nothing like that to worry about with us guy other than personality.
when you wake up next to the guy you let come home with you, you know hes going to look the same in the morning, well minus the typical morning face.
i wish more women felt like they didnt need to do all of that stuff...
it all most feel like there not doing it for us but for each other...
like a compitition.
hmm maybe so, maybe thats why a lot of ladies dont like other ladies and there so territorial (can any speak on that??)
i mean you know your gona get laid, even a crack head meth prostitute still gets clients.
so yall will get us some how.
so in essence if the average guy can be persuaded easily by a short skirt, then why so many different types,if where so basic and primal men, then why so much accessories supposedly need to lure us in??
are the ladies secretly dressing up to one up each other instead of to get our attention??
its possible.
man this shit is deep.
the inpact of men in women on each other in society....
