Virginity

[xmissxaliex]

That's a shame, I wish it could have at least been worth it for you.
As a lesbian the word 'virginty' has a lot of wiggle room. Does that mean no vagina/penis contact? If so, I'll be a virgin forever. Intact hymen? If so, I'm screwed. My hymen was gone by way of vibrator at 12.

I define sex as contact with gentilia in such a way that STD's could be spread.
For lesbians, this would be going down. But all the other things you can do, kissing, using toys, fondling, fingering, and strap-ons (as long as the butch has undies on underneath) are game.
For straight people this would be very restricting, but for this lesbian, it includes all of my favorite things. (Except the undies under the strap-on, maybe, that would be annoying I'm sure.)

The value attached to female virginity was used as a way to castrate female sexuality for a LONG time, but that's simply inexcusable these days. I support women demonstrating pleasure in sex, without being 'lowered' in the eyes of society.
I retain my virginity because I know it has meaning for my family, and I like to try to avoid sinning where I can. Not because I believe it makes me worth more as a women.

i don't believe that you lose your virginity through a vibrator its deeper and more intamite then that. i mean, its just sticking something up there like a tampon, and tampons don't make you lose your virginity but i guess its how you look at it from different perspectives.
hah it sounds like woman are alot more kinky in some cases then with girls and guys. lol. i don't believe its a sin, i honestly dont and i went to a christian school up until i was 13, and even then went to youth group until i was 16. im still christian but there are some things i can't believe its wrong.

 

[EarthlyPassions]

Kinky? LOL, I've never considered myself kinky. XD
Just to be clear, those are MY interests, there are plenty of lesbian couples that aren't into toys. Just the fun two bodies can provide.
For me that would be semi-boring, I like a lot of stimulation, so unless I'm being 'on top' (giving pleasure) at the time, there'd have to be something else in the mix. Like a toy.

 

[xmissxaliex]

Kinky? LOL, I've never considered myself kinky. XD
Just to be clear, those are MY interests, there are plenty of lesbian couples that aren't into toys. Just the fun two bodies can provide.
For me that would be semi-boring, I like a lot of stimulation, so unless I'm being 'on top' (giving pleasure) at the time, there'd have to be something else in the mix. Like a toy.

haha. thats funny. kinky just makes it more fun.

 

[munch box]

haha. thats funny. kinky just makes it more fun.

Let me get in on some of your fun. I wanna do the motorboat. How kinky do you think that is? What do you like to do the most?

 

[johndoe2216751]

anyone else think this chicks a whale?

 

[Stoney McFried]

No, but I think you're a dick.

anyone else think this chicks a whale?

 

[johndoe2216751]

just callin it like i see it.. lip only shot, 22 yr ol virgin... prolly the D.U.F.F. of the group.. no offense, but thats why..

 

[Stoney McFried]

Maybe if you don't have anything nice to say,don't say anything...she's posted pics of herself.She looks fine.

just callin it like i see it.. lip only shot, 22 yr ol virgin... prolly the D.U.F.F. of the group.. no offense, but thats why..

 

[xmissxaliex]

just callin it like i see it.. lip only shot, 22 yr ol virgin... prolly the D.U.F.F. of the group.. no offense, but thats why..

wow if you think size 8 is FAT then yes. im a whale. that picture was from feb when it was -15 degrees out and i had 2 sweaters on.

hahahaha. fat is like rolls everywhere. 8 is perfect.

 

[sarah22]

wow if you think size 8 is FAT then yes. im a whale. that picture was from feb when it was -15 degrees out and i had 2 sweaters on.

hahahaha. fat is like rolls everywhere. 8 is perfect.

hes talkin about me hun...lol. he thinks im a whale because im a 22 yr old virgin still and i only posted a lip picture..lol. i have a picture posted in the "picture of yourself" thread. and i posted a pic in the "fat chicks wtf" thread. yea im overweight...but im not a whale. and its not that i have any difficulty finding guys that wanna fuck me. thats not hard at all. but i dont want that. i want a relationship

 

[munch box]

hes talkin about me hun...lol. he thinks im a whale because im a 22 yr old virgin still and i only posted a lip picture..lol. i have a picture posted in the "picture of yourself" thread. and i posted a pic in the "fat chicks wtf" thread. yea im overweight...but im not a whale. and its not that i have any difficulty finding guys that wanna fuck me. thats not hard at all. but i dont want that. i want a relationship

so true.As long you don't have a big belly you should be fine. And also arms. I don't think i could date a girl with bigger arms than me. I'm friends with some big girls, and I've been in bed with thick women, they have more fun with it. Its been in my experience smaller slimmer girls just lay there and have trouble when comes time to push back on it. But as far as being in a relationship, I've never dated a big girl..... she would need to have one hell of a personality.If thats what you're looking for Your best bet would be to find a big guy,or find a nerdy star trekky type boyfriend, loose the weight, or if you have a fat ass you could get a black guy.

 

[xmissxaliex]

hes talkin about me hun...lol. he thinks im a whale because im a 22 yr old virgin still and i only posted a lip picture..lol. i have a picture posted in the "picture of yourself" thread. and i posted a pic in the "fat chicks wtf" thread. yea im overweight...but im not a whale. and its not that i have any difficulty finding guys that wanna fuck me. thats not hard at all. but i dont want that. i want a relationship

sad. they shouldn't say that. alot of guys like girls with more to love! guys loove big butts. unless of course they love girls that they have to try to PICK to feel anything. i hope you don't feel bad. cuz thats really sad

 

[Stoney McFried]

You know, just because she's not a bone doesn't mean she cant get good looking boyfriends.SHEESH!

so true.As long you don't have a big belly you should be fine. And also arms. I don't think i could date a girl with bigger arms than me. I'm friends with some big girls, and I've been in bed with thick women, they have more fun with it. Its been in my experience smaller slimmer girls just lay there and have trouble when comes time to push back on it. But as far as being in a relationship, I've never dated a big girl..... she would need to have one hell of a personality.If thats what you're looking for Your best bet would be to find a big guy,or find a nerdy star trekky type boyfriend, loose the weight, or if you have a fat ass you could get a black guy.

 

[xmissxaliex]

i know guys who LOVE bigger girls cuz theres more to work with. people can be beautiful on the inside and out but still be bigger. and big doesn't always mean fat or chunky. it just means not as small as most people. its just people's opinion, some people like skinny some people like more "real" woman lol but they don't need to dogg on someone that isn't their taste. thats just not right. if i wanted to, i don't like skinny guys, i could say SICK you got chicken legs! but thats not right on my part and i just keep to myself. you know?

 

[Stoney McFried]

Exactly.There's no need to make someone feel like that.

i know guys who LOVE bigger girls cuz theres more to work with. people can be beautiful on the inside and out but still be bigger. and big doesn't always mean fat or chunky. it just means not as small as most people. its just people's opinion, some people like skinny some people like more "real" woman lol but they don't need to dogg on someone that isn't their taste. thats just not right. if i wanted to, i don't like skinny guys, i could say SICK you got chicken legs! but thats not right on my part and i just keep to myself. you know?

 

[EarthlyPassions]

I know some VERY big, (unattractively so) sluts. To put it simply. I used to believe that being big could keep you from getting sex. But now I've seen evidence otherwise. I've seen very (apparently wealthy) attractive guys going out with very unattractive women, and vice-versa. We all have.

However, when you decide to have standards about the sex you have. Like, for example, only having sex within a loving relationship. It does tend to cut down on your numbers. If you implement these standards early, it may even preserve your virginity.

Use your brain before you jump up and type some bullshit behind a bogus alias. Karma doesn't care about your IP address, what comes around goes around.

 

[Stoney McFried]

Yeah, you know,I can really start diggin a guy I don't think is all that hot, if he's intelligent and funny.Case in point:I was watching Penn and Teller Bullshit the other night and thinking...you know,I could do Penn.He's not classically handsome, but he's smart, and funny.And that makes him attractive to me.

 

[sarah22]

Yeah, you know,I can really start diggin a guy I don't think is all that hot, if he's intelligent and funny.Case in point:I was watching Penn and Teller Bullshit the other night and thinking...you know,I could do Penn.He's not classically handsome, but he's smart, and funny.And that makes him attractive to me.

im like that...a lot of guys i've liked in the past werent conventionally attractive...but their personalities were awesome...so i started to become attracted to them. and soon a mediocre guy can be hella hot...just based on how i click with him

 

[munch box]

anyone else think this chicks a whale?

shouldn't have said that. now you've got a parade of fat chicks clucking about whats right and whats wrong. These girls say that stuff now but I know they are anxious as hell when a guy decides to bang a fatty just to get it out of his system. So damn happy after they bang it out that they start cooking or making sandwiches for no damn reason at all. Its like " whos going to eat all this. whos is all this food for?" and they don't know....

 

[mane2008]

i hope u dont mean girls with a phat bootys when u say fat?
Cause those are the best girls, next to sexy white girls.
Dont discriminate.