Losing? Mate it's not hard to get layed. Most ladies would prefer an extra hand with the toys every once in awhile than to play all alone.
We live in a subjective reality, people know as much about you as you let them know. I mean there are girls out there who think I'm a lawyer... A fuckin lawyer. The only time I ever been to court, was to be charged with shit hahaha.
Every girl I've been with knows NO toy, can replace the real thing... Let's see a toy hold an ice cube in it's mouth and tease her body with it ... When they come up with shit that can do that and more, then I'll start to worry about being replaced haha.