I def try to be sensitive to physical or mental handicaps. I tend to not make jokes that are sexist or racist either. People who are already marginalized don't need more grief, they need acceptance and understanding. That's how i try best to deal with life sunny jim. Everyone has different ways of coping and everyone is individual in their approach. Unless someone, that may be perceived as offensive, is flat-out racist, or the like, I try to suspend judgement and better understand them and their struggle. I've been known to wag my finger at people but I'm not so sure this is always the best approach either