Falsely accused of rape.

reddan1981

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This is a difficult topic for me to talk about, but I feel I have to for the sake of my own sanity. It is my hope that my story might give strength to anyone facing similar circumstances.
My nightmare began on October 21st. Three days previously, I had been raided and caught growing. Still licking my wounds from this I was ready to physically fight the police the second time they knocked my door , on the morning my nightmare began. I had just lit a spliff after finishing a youtube rant about the moons luminosity (long story) when my missus shouted through the house that the muskra's are at the door. Panicking to get my mason jar out of view, I heard the marching of footsteps come through my house. Disoriented, angry and wanting answers, when I noticed an officer walk through the hallway with my baby daughter, I screamed. At which point I was strangled from behind dragged to the floor and wrapped up in restraints. They then told me their reason, rape of a minor. WHAT!!!! Who? Where? When? What the fuck are you on about!!
A bit of a back story. In 2014 my wives dad got 17 years and was convicted of raping my wives sister. My wives sister came to stay with us immediately after making the allegation as she Didn't want to return to the family home, but we wasnt really in a position to support her as we have 4 children, was caring for 3 of another of my wives sisters kids and looking after her granny who has senile dementia, my own son also has ceribral paulsy and requires almost constant attention. So my wives sister was placed into a childrens home some 200 or so miles away and life went on. My wive is a gypsy so she has a completely different culture to most. She has 10 sisters and six brothers and every single one of them have issues and their way of dealing with the embarrassment of having a nonce for a dad is to pretend it has never happened, her sister was ostracized and was left to fester with her anger. Last year she made a following accusation that she was being used as a prostitute by her mum. She said that her mum would drug her and sell her via an online site and because of that 6 of her younger sibling were removed and placed in protected custody. In October she made a following accusation that my wife was involved and that I had been one of the customers.......
 
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Gregor Eisenhorn

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Hey man, so sorry to hear about your troubles. All I can say is stay strong and I'll be hoping everything will straighten out. Good luck with your barrister.
 

Downtowntillman

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Sounds like some messed up shit man? So your being accused of raping your wife when she was under age? Interested in more info!
 

sunni

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get a good lawyer.
you should be okay , at least legally, if your lawyer can prove the woman is bsing and lying
that still doesnt help with the whole emotional aspect of being charged with rape and having your name plastered everywhere in the papers (if they do that where youre from)
goodluck sorry this happened to you.

there is probably also a social justice group who works with men falsely accused of these crimes who can probably help you try looking for one in your area
 

reddan1981

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I met with my barrister and he pretty much confirmed what i suspected. But however confident he sounds, I am still aware that miscarriages do occasionally occur. What scares me is not fullly understanding the process, I have had to try to learn a foreign language (legalese) to understand the procedure and as it stands, my position is this; Because of consideration for the public purse, my wife, her mother's and my own case have been consolidated. It also means that the time her sister spends on the witness stand is reduced, which is a pisstake but understandable I suppose. I havent actually been charged with anything yet as Im due back on bail in May, but because of child protection laws the matter must proceed through the family courts first. The family court system has a much more thorough investigative procedure than crown, which could be my saving grace. I believe that if this judge finds us innocent the crown will not pursue the matter further. My court date is expected to last four days, from next Tuesday to Friday, so I am praying we get our children back with in the next fortnight or so. At the moment I am feeling mad anxiety and a need to scream at someone or something. Within this next fortnight I will finish this thread with the outcome, if its good Im coming back to troll you fuckers with more TRUTHS. Thankyou for all for responding.
 

greasemonkeymann

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I met with my barrister and he pretty much confirmed what i suspected. But however confident he sounds, I am still aware that miscarriages do occasionally occur. What scares me is not fullly understanding the process, I have had to try to learn a foreign language (legalese) to understand the procedure and as it stands, my position is this; Because of consideration for the public purse, my wife, her mother's and my own case have been consolidated. It also means that the time her sister spends on the witness stand is reduced, which is a pisstake but understandable I suppose. I havent actually been charged with anything yet as Im due back on bail in May, but because of child protection laws the matter must proceed through the family courts first. The family court system has a much more thorough investigative procedure than crown, which could be my saving grace. I believe that if this judge finds us innocent the crown will not pursue the matter further. My court date is expected to last four days, from next Tuesday to Friday, so I am praying we get our children back with in the next fortnight or so. At the moment I am feeling mad anxiety and a need to scream at someone or something. Within this next fortnight I will finish this thread with the outcome, if its good Im coming back to troll you fuckers with more TRUTHS. Thankyou for all for responding.
wish you the best of luck my friend.
looking forward to more TRUTHS...
Always liked arguing with you
 

texasjack

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Wow I kinda feel sorry for the sister since it sounds like she got a bad lot in life. But at the point she tried to ruin yours it's game over. I'd get as far away as possible like the above dude said. Give your wife an ultimatum once this is all over.
 

LegalizeNature420

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Was her father wrongly convicted as well? I mean she accuses her mom of drugging her and selling her online, you of violating her, wife of being in on it, etc.. She sounds like she has no credibility whatsoever. I just hope that poor bastard isn't going to spend the next 17 years behind bars over some bullshit.
 

reddan1981

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Was her father wrongly convicted as well? I mean she accuses her mom of drugging her and selling her online, you of violating her, wife of being in on it, etc.. She sounds like she has no credibility whatsoever. I just hope that poor bastard isn't going to spend the next 17 years behind bars over some bullshit.
No unfortunately, he denied it vehemently and her mum supported his defence, the forensic evidence proved he was lying and told a different story. My missus has confided in me that she also suffered from abuse from her father. So I know the abuse happened. It was actually her mum that grassed me in for the grow, because she is wicked and filled with anger and spite, but that said, she still wouldn't solicit her children.
 
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