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papapayne

papapayne

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Dr.D81 said:
For someone who tells me I am his best friend offline and the amount of my time a have spent furthering your grow and never asking for shit out of it. The time I have take when I had a full time job and family and sat there for hours teaching you the 20 years worth experience and learning I have amassed. I am a long ways from knowing everything but you were using a 25 micron bag as your work bag a month ago and that is the answer
You went with really? I have been trying to get around to talking to you but quite frankly you answer the question posed to you is an insult, and that not to mention your thc farmer thread. Now think back to all the shit I have done and go and get you a quote on wiring up the sub panel you need. Then you might want to reevaluate your attitude. To everyone else sorry but that was the paverdial straw:(
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Ok....wow. message recieved. And I take it you feel I haven't helped you??? Good to know.
 
papapayne

papapayne

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Dr.D81 said:
Not what I said I said I felt insulted by your answer. If as a friend I can't say so then something is wrong to start with.
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I'm sorry you feel insulted. Personally though, that didn't sound like a friend talking to another friend. That sounded like you had stuff to say for a while, and finally said it. Kinda hard to take it as friend when I wake up to being put on blast, and seeing your wife deleted me from facebook.

We have both helped each other, and we have both helped each other step up our game. that wasn't an insult, that was the truth. i have thanked you for your help, both in person and on RUI many many times. And every time you have helped me, or made hash with me, I have said thank you both in words and in actions...

If I haven't done enough to show you that, then I'm sorry.
 
papapayne

papapayne

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I understand though that we both are very proud men, we both have passion for what we do, and we both are chasing the dream as hard as we can.

I certainly didn't mean to say shit to lose a friend, and if I have offended, I am sorry, and I apologize.

Take it or leave it. At the end of the day man, you are quite a capable grower, and will get your dreams, just as I am a quite capable grower and will reach mine. I thought we could get there faster helping each-other out.
 
DCobeen

DCobeen

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Oh I didnt mean to start anything. I know this. Friendship can be hard as diff expectations from each person. I am a bit blown away papa of how you said it also, as you had said to me you were very grateful that doc was helping you step up your game (we all have to learn more) he did help you allot. I learned allot from doc and many others. I am a bit older and realize being humble is always the better way. If it wasn't for RIU and all the growers here I would not be able to do what I do at the level I am (a growing student as I will never learn it all ever). So yes without all you great people who helped me, the list is way to long to say each name. I would still be screwing up and having okay weed instead of top shelf. I always said if you just needed to dial a few things in. Sure you knew how to grow but we all need help and a few things make the difference. Don't take it wrong I am not trying to insult or be little you. You know when I had all that money sitting around and was looking for an area and a partner I had 2 choices Jointed and Doc but Doc was working with you and I didn't want to cause any issues so I picked Jointed and MI. I have no regrets and that is how life is. I am sorry for stirring this on here. I know there is always 2 sides. So can I ask you both to shake hands and see if it can be resolved? If not shake hands and agree to disagree and part friends knowing you both are diff people. I am saying the truth. Some dont know I am good friends with Doc and will side with him and help him without blinking. I have also tried to help you out as much as possible also. So Again i hope you both meet and get off your chests what needs to be and see if you can go forward as friends or not. Life is short guys and we cant be friends with everyone and I did see a great friendship and only you 2 can either repair it or let it totally break. I am hoping for repairing. Peace and Love all.
 
Dr.D81

Dr.D81

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DCobeen said:
http://growershouse.com/blog/8-og-vertical-reflector-vs-8-raptor-reflector-by-hydrofarm/
this changes the game.
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If you put some sixes in some let me know what you think.

papapayne said:
I'm sorry you feel insulted. Personally though, that didn't sound like a friend talking to another friend. That sounded like you had stuff to say for a while, and finally said it. Kinda hard to take it as friend when I wake up to being put on blast, and seeing your wife deleted me from facebook.

We have both helped each other, and we have both helped each other step up our game. that wasn't an insult, that was the truth. i have thanked you for your help, both in person and on RUI many many times. And every time you have helped me, or made hash with me, I have said thank you both in words and in actions...

If I haven't done enough to show you that, then I'm sorry.
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Dude the Facebook was an badly timed fuck up on facebooks part that got you here mom and a couple others who's pics she liked but no office was ment there. Man we have had multiple talkes when I have told you I thought you were being unreasonable, wrong, or being a push dick like the last time we worked on the ghouse but I still told you I would be back to help. You should know by now I am going to say something just like with SupaM when I think you are wrong. I would expect the same from you, but to be honest I read some of your thc farmer thread and it did tic me off some. I am sure I came off stronger than I should but after the hundreds of hours I have spent teaching and doing work for you you can't do that was hurtful really. As for the bid comment bro I think it will help you appreciate some of the shit I do for you I fell you don't realize how much it would set you back to have done and by someone you don't know shit about was all. I know you have done shit for me I never said that you have't or that you couldn't grow. Sorry really for the sink but like I have done before on here I will speak my mind.
 
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DCobeen

DCobeen

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I think you both spent to much time and need a break. Doc and Papa a good couple weeks might be needed. See its tough. both agree to step back and let cool heads prevail. To be honest I thought I would never see doc mad like this and only time I have is over some messed up family back home who screwed Doc big time. Peace and Love. and smoke a fat bowl with me.
 
Dr.D81

Dr.D81

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DCobeen said:
I think you both spent to much time and need a break. Doc and Papa a good couple weeks might be needed. See its tough. both agree to step back and let cool heads prevail. To be honest I thought I would never see doc mad like this and only time I have is over some messed up family back home who screwed Doc big time. Peace and Love. and smoke a fat bowl with me.
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Yea they are moving here and that stress has not helped my mood. I have to sale my truck and Facebook was supposed to be shut down already anyway but @papapayne already knows that. He has heard that bitch already. And yes I just said my fuck head brother in law and sister in law are moving to Eugene:(
 
Joedank

Joedank

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Dr.D81 said:
Yea they are moving here and that stress has not helped my mood. I have to sale my truck and Facebook was supposed to be shut down already anyway but @papapayne already knows that. He has heard that bitch already. And yes I just said my fuck head brother in law and sister in law are moving to Eugene:(
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thats a bummer man :( i had to sell my truck too ... wife sad it was no good to have a truck we cannot fit any car seats into when we have 2 kids in carseats...lol... sold in 2 days on cl .... guess i shoulda asked for more...View attachment 3611386now i gotta finda a 4 door 4x4 farm truck ...waaaawaaaa ...
 
papapayne

papapayne

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Yea, I suppose that's the downside with real life and online prescience, hard to interpret things, and its easy to assume the worst and such. And its easy at times to make the wrong move. I am a proud man, and I probably did read more into things then intended, and vice versa. At the end of the day, my life has been better for meeting you and your family, I hope the feeling is mutual.

But anyway doc, I want nothing but the best for you and your family, I hope that's never been in question. If I have taken to much, I get it, and I apologize. I know I can be an ass, intentionally, and unintentionally. Hope everything is cool, but if not, I get that to.

Regardless -

Stay free, stay high

papa
 
Thundercat

Thundercat

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Man I'm sorry to hear your stressed Doc. I can't believe those fuck heads (her fam) are invading your guys new space, you don't deserve that. Thankfully the plants seem like they are doing really well :). I'd say if there is nothing else you can do about it, hide in the glass shop any time they show their faces :).
 
DCobeen

DCobeen

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Yeah it all adds up brother. You work so dam hard and when was the last time you took your family fishing or something where the cell is turned off and its just you and your family having a break and enjoying all that is around you. Make time asap brother and watch your stress melt away.
 
Dr.D81

Dr.D81

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Haha turned it off yesterday and met a really cool member @420roofer . Smoked some bud and talked for like 5 or 6 hours. Gave him a proper dab of rosin, and you can always tell it suprizes guys the first time how it goes to your head like it does. Got guest comeing up to day from the seed bank and taking calls on the truck. We are taking a trip to CO next weekend too brother :)
 
420roofer

420roofer

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Dr.D81 said:
Haha turned it off yesterday and met a really cool member @420roofer . Smoked some bud and talked for like 5 or 6 hours. Gave him a proper dab of rosin, and you can always tell it suprizes guys the first time how it goes to your head like it does. Got guest comeing up to day from the seed bank and taking calls on the truck. We are taking a trip to CO next weekend too brother :)
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Lol. Made me weak in the knees. My arms couldn't hardly hold the wheel straight going to Portland. I felt like my mind was laser focused but my body was acting drunk. Thanks again doc for having me out. I had a blast and look forward to communicating with you. Don't forget i want some of your glass. If you ever come through east Texas you gotta stop by my farm.
 
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