I have put together literally 1000's of cxb's and hundreds of cxa's(old substrate)...as well as dropped them, tossed them, crammed them in drawers, stepped on them, poked them with screwdrivers, sprayed them with foliar, hot plugged them...just about everything you are not supposed to do to them. Most of them with pads I might add. Never once have I cracked one, "blown up" one, or damaged a bond wire.
"thicker" pads do not mean thick...it means thicker than before.
Pads come right off like a perfect sticker. They are not fragile, and can be reused. I have a bunch on personal projects.
Cree actually said that they prefer user to use plastic holder vs metral ideal...because of the possibility of over torquing(too much pressure) is easy with them. I've never had it happen..and screwed them down pretty tight...but could see it happening.
I had one cxb3070 DOA in a 500 pack one time. Cree took care of me and then some.