Falsely accused of rape.

Corso312

Corso312

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Sounds like the mother and daughter are teaming up to get you out of the picture.. After you beat this, I would forbid my wife to have any contact with those dysfunctional gypos.
 
reddan1981

reddan1981

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Corso312 said:
Sounds like the mother and daughter are teaming up to get you out of the picture.. After you beat this, I would forbid my wife to have any contact with those dysfunctional gypos.
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No they are not teaming up against ME, they dont give a fuck about me. Ive given them no reason to not like me, they have used me to get at EACH OTHER. Infact my defence might look at first glance an easy one to argue, it didn't happen so there isn't one bit of evidence to suggest it did. But because the allegation is historical and her sister has been proven credible previously and because of concern, over my own childrens safety, It is down to our defence to prove it never happened. I am quietly optimistic, but my future is reliant on the competence of our defence teams ability to produce a defence. In truth I am secretly confident that it wont make crown, as in crown the burden of proof lays with the prosecution to prove it did happen which they cant.
 
Corso312

Corso312

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Yeah..I feel for ya, I got a good friend who was @ a bar playing a gig.. He's a blues musician.. He takes a girl home n bangs her.. She was hanging around the house for half the next day until he said he had to make up an excuse to leave so she left.. 2 days later he answer a knock @ door.. Two detectives take him in for question on rape.. He was charged later that day.. Post bail the next day.. By now its all over the neighborhood that he's a scumbag and a rapist. His lawyer got the charges dropped a few weeks later, this crazy bitch had accused 3 other guys of rape over the past few years and all of those turned out to be bullshit.


If the mother ratted you out to cops for growing and the daughter accused you of rape.. I'd say they are against you.. Crazy bitches will eventually try to poison you..
 
Bublonichronic

Bublonichronic

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That's fucked up....I hate how women have the power to ruin someone's life at will if they get upset, good luck I hope the lying bitch gets hit by a buss
 
reddan1981

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So nearly a year has passed since I wrote on this thread, I forgot I'd started it. Today is probably a bad day to write, in all honesty.
My children came back in April. The Family court judge threw the case out because prosecution couldn't provide a single piece of evidence, as I obviously expected. So I should be happy but I'm not. I don't feel as if it's proper closure for me. I wanted her to admit her lies and ask my forgiveness. I wanted an apology from the police for strangling me. I'm a wear my heart on my sleeve kind of guy so stupidly I told everyone and anyone who would listen just incase it got out, I didn't want people to talk about me without knowing the full facts, Chinese whispers and all that....
I think I am losing my mind a little and I can't get away from my thoughts.
I have had a lot of shit in my life and I don't want to face anymore. I have locked myself off from my friends cause I choose bad company and its left me feeling isolated. I feel suicidal some days, like beating random people on others I have to say never my children, I love my children, I want better for them and hide these thoughts and feelings from all of my family, my family is the only reason I am still writing this. I work, but stupidly I told everyone so now I'm paranoid people are talking about me there, well I know they have talked about me. A month or so ago I jacked my job in. Two weeks ago I text my boss and got it back. Since I've been back I've noticed a change in my work mates. The other day one of the lorry drivers said something to a temp that's just started, as I drove past him. I felt like crying and killing him. I literally e braked my van and nearly crashed I wound my window down and screamed fat cunt till no breath came out. Then I zoned back in and nearly had a panic attack, I had another incident today. One of my work members said I added his niece, obviously I didn't add his fucking niece. I thought about it a second and he had a switchy look about him,like he was actually meaning it. I'm thinking is he actually fucking with me or is he serious so i say to him "ill tell you what, ill check and if i find her name isnt on my friend's list... then I threatened him and everyone and everything I made a proper show of my self then nearly started crying, I got work tomorrow and I'm with a cocky cunt I nearly poked in the eye last week for chucking a pebble at my back, fuck it anyways I've got to go bed now cause I've got to be out by 5. Thank you for letting me vent.
 
curious2garden

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reddan1981 said:
So nearly a year has passed since I wrote on this thread, I forgot I'd started it. Today is probably a bad day to write, in all honesty.
My children came back in April. The Family court judge threw the case out because prosecution couldn't provide a single piece of evidence, as I obviously expected. So I should be happy but I'm not. I don't feel as if it's proper closure for me. I wanted her to admit her lies and ask my forgiveness. I wanted an apology from the police for strangling me. I'm a wear my heart on my sleeve kind of guy so stupidly I told everyone and anyone who would listen just incase it got out, I didn't want people to talk about me without knowing the full facts, Chinese whispers and all that....
I think I am losing my mind a little and I can't get away from my thoughts.
I have had a lot of shit in my life and I don't want to face anymore. I have locked myself off from my friends cause I choose bad company and its left me feeling isolated. I feel suicidal some days, like beating random people on others I have to say never my children, I love my children, I want better for them and hide these thoughts and feelings from all of my family, my family is the only reason I am still writing this. I work, but stupidly I told everyone so now I'm paranoid people are talking about me there, well I know they have talked about me. A month or so ago I jacked my job in. Two weeks ago I text my boss and got it back. Since I've been back I've noticed a change in my work mates. The other day one of the lorry drivers said something to a temp that's just started, as I drove past him. I felt like crying and killing him. I literally e braked my van and nearly crashed I wound my window down and screamed fat cunt till no breath came out. Then I zoned back in and nearly had a panic attack, I had another incident today. One of my work members said I added his niece, obviously I didn't add his fucking niece. I thought about it a second and he had a switchy look about him,like he was actually meaning it. I'm thinking is he actually fucking with me or is he serious so i say to him "ill tell you what, ill check and if i find her name isnt on my friend's list... then I threatened him and everyone and everything I made a proper show of my self then nearly started crying, I got work tomorrow and I'm with a cocky cunt I nearly poked in the eye last week for chucking a pebble at my back, fuck it anyways I've got to go bed now cause I've got to be out by 5. Thank you for letting me vent.
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Get some psychological support. You need some help dealing with this in a more constructive manner, good luck with this.
 
needsomebeans

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Hang in there my friend. I went through a very similar situation myself about 5 years ago. I was married to a woman that was purely toxic and when I decided to leave, she said she would destroy me. I won't go into the whole story, but I had the social services, the state police, and my whole family up my ass so far I couldn't draw a breath. The lies finally surfaced but the damage was already done. My three kids relationship is strained to say the least. One cries on a regular basis for lying for her mother. It cost me around 20000 in lawyer fees and countless trips to the courthouse. I had the same thoughts you are having my friend and to be honest it still bothers me from time to time. I have never received an apology or any kind of gratification of any kind, but she didn't distroy me. I promise that I am happier with my life than she will ever be. If you ever need some one to vent to my friend just send needsomebeans a pm.
 
reddan1981

reddan1981

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needsomebeans said:
Hang in there my friend. I went through a very similar situation myself about 5 years ago. I was married to a woman that was purely toxic and when I decided to leave, she said she would destroy me. I won't go into the whole story, but I had the social services, the state police, and my whole family up my ass so far I couldn't draw a breath. The lies finally surfaced but the damage was already done. My three kids relationship is strained to say the least. One cries on a regular basis for lying for her mother. It cost me around 20000 in lawyer fees and countless trips to the courthouse. I had the same thoughts you are having my friend and to be honest it still bothers me from time to time. I have never received an apology or any kind of gratification of any kind, but she didn't distroy me. I promise that I am happier with my life than she will ever be. If you ever need some one to vent to my friend just send needsomebeans a pm.
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Thank you for this. I appreciate you sharing, when I know it'll hurt to even think about it. I'm truly sorry that you had to face this treatment.
 
farmasensist

farmasensist

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I'm going through some similar stuff too. Women are fucking crazy, all they have to do is make up some bullshit story and and then there are a dozen armed police and homeland security serving a warrant on your house while you are in bed sleeping. Even though they don't find anything listed on the warrant, you still go to jail for a week and have to pay a lawyer $5,000 and another $3,000 bond because you have a 600 watt grow in the basement.

Luckily I dont have any kids and the people in my life know the truth. I understand what you mean about the panick attacks and wanting to beat random strangers in public, I feel the same way.
 
needsomebeans

needsomebeans

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reddan1981 said:
Thank you for this. I appreciate you sharing, when I know it'll hurt to even think about it. I'm truly sorry that you had to face this treatment.
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No worries my friend. Sometimes it helps to air things out from time to time. Your idea about mentoring some one sounds like a good idea to me. Also, I am from Small down, USA. I had to distance myself from the situation. The new atmosphere really helped more then you can imagine. I was able to move back closer to my kids after the shit storm settled.

You hang in there too @farmasensist.
 
chemphlegm

chemphlegm

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its you who teaches people how to treat you. Its you who chooses to keep this kind of company around, even current company.
its you who will need to accept the ramifications of your choices.

If you keep doing what you've always done you'll keep getting what you've always got.

so , if you dont like what you been getting, start doing things differently aye
peace to you, heal quickly, to hell with whomever cursed you with this low self esteem ruining your life. theres hope, but you
have to grab it, rule it, own it. Its your life, script it differently before its too late.
 
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