Seriously? How do you come up with these "scenarios"? Both parties except the risks and consequences involved when deciding to engage in sex. And men absolutely have a say...over their body. They can choose NOT to put their P in the V regardless of any superficial contract or promises that happen before intercourse. After the deed is done, the responsibility has and always will fall on the female. Until that changes, your points are moot.
This isn't about feminism or contracts. I know there are those here that arrogantly believe that society should bear the responsibility of their crotch fruit and that's fine...I guess. I will always support social programs because kids shouldnt suffer because they're born to brain dead parents who refuse to support them. Matter of fact...I'd like to here your thoughts on THAT contract.
Well let me see if I can unravel your diatribe.
I made no assertion that a father should not support his child. I would, because I feel a sense of duty, but that's just me. However if he decided he did not want the child born, does he have the same right to end the pregnancy as the mother ?
If he doesn't have the same right as the mother regarding the disposition of the unborn, what are his rights ? If the child isn't at least partly his when it is unborn, what is the basis for insisting he support it when it is born? Does the mother have more parental rights than a father?
Again, my questions are not to advance my point of view, they are inquiries into the consistency of arguments made by others.