I arrived at the same conclusion.
I suspect they are also very young, probably still lives at home with mom and dad and hasn't dealt with real life.
Yes, it may suck something is sold out with it listed as in stock. Things happen though. We all know that. The way it was handled by seedsman was professional and that's all you can ask.
A lot worse can go wrong buying an illegal product. Those that think they are legal, they are not. Yes I personally have received my package with customs tape on it.
I just don't get it. Well I do. The op is just one of those customers that you can not please.
I have never ordered from seedsman. Looking at that post with all those freebies, I might order a pack of something there. Lol.
What I can say about seedsman is that I have emailed them a few times about strain lineage or similar questions.
All my questions were answered with in a day and always polite and professional.
I just see them screwing over a paid customer.
As far as the shitty grower, I suspect that because its always someone else's fault.
