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tangerinegreen555

tangerinegreen555

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twostrokenut said:
http://www.lifecoach-directory.org.uk/lifecoach-articles/7-things-high-self-esteem-people-dont-do-1215
LOL thanks for playing.

Here are seven things high self-esteem people don't do:

1. They don't compare and despair.

People with low self-esteem always compare themselves to everyone else. They constantly put others on a pedestal. They never feel they are 'good enough, smart enough, funny enough, slim enough'. Those with high self-esteem focus on their goals, aspirations and achievements. They take a look in the mirror as they know that's who their competition is.

2. They don't have a sense of entitlement.

Those with low self-esteem are not aware how crucial high self-esteem is to success. Those with high self-esteem are hard workers and they push themselves through their comfort zone. They have self-belief so they know they can achieve success and don't rest on their laurels. They don't moan and groan, they just 'do it'.

3. They don't focus on what's not happening.

People are more positive when they have high self-esteem because they are always grateful for what they have and not wasting energy complaining about what's going wrong in their life. They let go of what has not worked out and they move on.

4. They don't people please.

People with high self-esteem know everybody will not be happy when they don't people please but they don't worry about that. They focus on being integral by pleasing themselves. After all saying one thing and meaning another is being fake. They are happy to say yes if they genuinely want to, but they wont say it because they are looking for approval.

5. They don't try to be perfect.

People with high self-esteem aim for excellence, not perfectionism. Those with low self-esteem are always trying to be perfect. High self-esteem people are comfortable being perfectly imperfect. They take action and let go of the outcome trusting in themselves they have done the best they can.

6. They don't put others down.

Those with low self-esteem always criticise, judge and bully others as they enjoy flagging up others shortcomings. High self-esteem people champion others, support them and inspire them. Those with low self-esteem don't have confidence and so they are threatened by others who do and are successful or on their way to success.

7. They don't manipulate.

High self-esteem people are not controlling and don't feel the need to tell you what you ought to do, and how you ought to behave. They don't guilt trip you or shame you into doing what they want. They don't build you up to make you feel dependent on them, then point out your defects so they can feel superior and make you feel you need them.

It's always helpful when entering the world of personal development you have an awareness that knowledge is power. If you have low self-esteem you can build it by knowing what not to do. It is crucial to learn to not take things personally if you are around bosses, colleagues or friends who suffer from chronic low self-esteem, remember it is them who has the issue, not you so don't let them project all their insecurities onto you.

You can do it - make it happen. Why? It's your time to shine.
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TL;DR

poster is a known racist who believes in aIt facts.
 
see4

see4

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twostrokenut said:
Sure sure. That's why he registered democrat, for rising action to climax, where he would have registered republican on the last day of the election. I'll have the cookies with the sandwich Jared.
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No doubt this information you received from Breitbart.

And again you completely ignore the facts I provided and yammer on about bullshit that never happened.

I might start calling you Methy-anne Conway. Making shit up as you go along.

How'd that Yemen raid work out for ya? 10 years ago.....
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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HAF2 said:
Sounds a lot like the way devout Christians/ Mormons/ scientoligists/ Catholics/ etc feel as well. Ever seen the documentary "Jesus Camp"? The runners of that evangelical training program openly discussed arming their children with automatic weapons.
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Yep. I'm aware there is fanatical christian camps (as there probably is in many religions). Has there been any type of pattern of violence perpetrated by students of these camps? Suicide bombings you're aware of? Mass killings in the name of their God they worshiped at these camps?

Suicide bombings and shootings committed in the name of Allah for Jihad is what scares people. Rightfully so I believe. This is widely and globally reported behavior.

You may point to white supremecists as being christian and kill, etc. You're probably right. I have no doubt there is some bible thumper out there with a hood in his closet. Life has an infinite amount of variation. But, that behavior is reviled among all of society, and you know it.

Are most Muslims a threat? no. But percentage wise as a religious population, they sure seem to be involved with a lot of violence and death in the name of their God. Just my observation.

What do you see?
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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PCXV said:
Planned, not ordered or executed. Can you understand the difference? Trump hastily took a risk and it got messy.
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Ya, Obama was sure not risk a bumpy roll out with Obamacare. So he was sure the contract was awarded to Michelle's college friend. A Canadian company, how patriotic. And, after spending over $1B, it didnt even work properly. Nice.
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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PCXV said:
Whatever decision was made, Clinton was not acting unilaterally, nor could she foresee the consequences of either action. The investigation confirms that Stevens declined offers for additional security a month before the attacks. Stevens agreed that more US troops would aggravate political instability and willingly complied.

Security was inadequate because the strategy/logic was flawed, how was this different?
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She was Secretary of State. They work for her. She has a team, yes, but she is the decision maker. The top gets the credit and blame, such is life bud.

BTW, no one can read the future, so that is just a ridiculous defense...
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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Unclebaldrick said:
I want him to bring back doo-wop too.



His supporters believe this because they live in an alternate universe built on alternative facts that feel good in their sub-par brains.
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LOL, alternate reality. Coming from the group of folks that think minimum wage is supposed to raise a family of four with a house, car, and a yard.
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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tangerinegreen555 said:
You're so full of misinfornation, you haven't a fucking clue.

There's a market price for commodity stainless. A company has to sell at that price or lose business.

There are many American steel producers, some owned by foreign companies such as Acelor, so obviously they are competitive.

The Chinese (and others) governments subsidize steel and other companies enabling them to beat the market price.

The union company I worked has not had a operating loss for decades, but when they file trade complaints, they are frequently rejected because the arbitor rules that they're profitable and trying to 'corner the market'.

You're kinda stupid.

And you never answered my question of, when you were in the navy, did you ever run into the Village People?

Now you may resume talking out your loose fucking ass.

Idiot.
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Do you know where the Bay Bridge in SF was made?
 
PCXV

PCXV

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visajoe1 said:
Ya, Obama was sure not risk a bumpy roll out with Obamacare. So he was sure the contract was awarded to Michelle's college friend. A Canadian company, how patriotic. And, after spending over $1B, it didnt even work properly. Nice.
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What is your point? The ACA saved lives and prevented thousands of bankruptcies. This raid did nothing.
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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tangerinegreen555 said:
And then there's you on a fucking social program for survival.

You're a fucking witless sponge to society who adds nothing, but don't worry.

Trump doesn't respect you and will cut into your check quite soon. He's making America great again, no room for losers.
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blah blah blah. meaningless opinion that someone is actually supposed to be insulted by? laughable.

The difference between me and you. I have a huge grin on my face while busting you all up.

You guys bash the keys in anger, fighting tears. So funny. Just group hug eachother or something, fuck
 
PCXV

PCXV

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visajoe1 said:
She was Secretary of State. They work for her. She has a team, yes, but she is the decision maker. The top gets the credit and blame, such is life bud.

BTW, no one can read the future, so that is just a ridiculous defense...
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Then you must feel the same way about the Yemen raid. "Trump at the top made the order, he gets the blame, such is life."
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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PCXV said:
What is your point? The ACA saved lives and prevented thousands of bankruptcies. This raid did nothing.
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My point is Obamas rocky start cost over $1b, just with Obamacare. Trump's rocky start hurt your feelings? How much is that worth
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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PCXV said:
Then you must feel the same way about the Yemen raid. "Trump at the top made the order, he gets the blame, such is life."
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sure, i'll give that to you. Its a fuck up, plain and simple. How much did releasing a 10yr old video cost? Who was hurt by its release?
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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Its always sad when a service member dies. Im sure that wasnt anyone's intention. Same goes for those that died under Obama's watch. Sadly, I think its an unavoidable fault as a president. I'm not aware of a President that hasnt been responsible for a death. He will need to learn from it, as all the rest did.

Trump lives in the White House. He lived in Trump Tower until Inauguration Day
 
PCXV

PCXV

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Didn't see that, you're right. This makes me skeptical of Trump's judgment but I'm not so radical as to wish for his total failure; I happen to like my life in the US. Glad you are able to lend Obama et al some credit and slack where it's due. I admit I am long frustrated with the extreme obstruction and anti-Obama absolutism, as well as the manufactured controversies that came with it. It's tough to want to be a team player all of the sudden.
 
visajoe1

visajoe1

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Politics is just tough, and I can only think its not just a societal thing. Or a cultural thing. Its a human thing. Every country and way of life has their own version of politics. What I just find astounding though, is most people would say that they dont agree with parents/spouse/etc on everything. Yet, when we discuss politics, generally people are just assumed to believe/support all or none of a particular person. That isnt even logical. Yet we all overlook it. Crazy right?

I believe if we just realized that and took that into consideration when a political topic comes up, we would have much more meaningful and beneficial discussions. More civil too? And people wouldnt dis-invite family over for holidays because of who they voted for (happened to someone I know! unreal. sad). I dont want everyone to agree. As much as I disagree with many policies on the left, and I do plenty on the right also, their existence is vital to the success of the country. I want to hear thoughts and theories, potential solutions from opposing minds. It makes me better
 
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