many many many examples of parallel builds in this forum. not a single case of thermal runaway
Maybe I am just unlucky. It happened to me 100% of the time. Two strings on separate boards no heatsinks, forward voltage 42.2V and 42.4V, 16 LEDs each, white Luxeon Rebel ES, do not remember the current, it had to be under 300mA shared, less than 150mA each.
It does not happen immediately for me it was overnight. I'd get up the next day and one board would be flickering very dimly the other very bright. Someone not running 24/7 may never notice.
When selling a product you do not want any field failures, they are a nightmare. These guys are looking for headaches. It only costs $0.50 a string to balance.
BTW: I was on your website, you should sell Thermal Cut Offs. It's an inexpensive $0.60 (small qty) thermal fuse. Twice I have had CoBs overheat but was saved when the solder melted and the wire fell off. I am rather careless.
I will try again measuring the current with a data logging meter.
You are correct the situation can be mitigated. It does require a mismatch in the dynamic resistance which is exacerbated with temperature.
If you match the forward voltages and keep the temperatures the same, it is less likely to happen.
This is the thermal measurements with a similar board no heatsink.
All measurements were made at least a half hour after the current adjustment except for the first.
