I'm a little sensitive... but noogies are a solid threat. Consider me in check... like I said, I appreciate your no-nonsense style.Awww...I told ya I was just playing!Man,don't be so sensitive or I'll give ya a noogie.Anyway, Yeah, I put it on the table in the beginning, like everyone should.Everyone should make it clear what they expect from the relationship, that way there are no illusions.
many want to want something, but don't really understand what that thing really looks like in ownership... for example, I want to own a home ( i mean, I already do...just an example) but I don't understand that owning a home is not an automatic 'good thing'. there's a loooot of responsibility that comes with...
another example: having kids 'because i want someone to love and love me'...and don't realize that having kids means that i have to reorganize my priorities so that my selfish ass is no longer #1...and that's not easy in reality. simple, not easy.
that you've said, 'this is not only what I want, this is what I expect' means exactly what you said, no illusions. no disappointments.
you're a g to me, stoney...