Much of what you have written matches closely to my playbook. I figure if telling people I have MS does not fizz them then likely all the other things just sounds like I am whining. When people ask you what is wrong, or are you OK, the best answer I find is nothing is wrong and I am fine. If I choose to tell them I find they just look at me like I am making victim noises. I find it very telling how your friends seem to abandon you when the going gets tough. I chose to remove three friends from my life this week because my MS and other issues make me to "high maintenance" for them.Its kinda hard to believe and I left some stuff out too. Its the main reason I rarely talk about it...cause I got called a pity whore...on here along time ago...
and unfortunately for me its all true and diagnosed by a barrage of doctors
Sorry to hear your buddies moved on. I never leave a good friend behind. Unless he fucks me over which is rare. To me, friendship loyalty is number 1That's so true....all of my original crew except one...bailed on me.... mostly after my heart operation,since I think they thought I was gonna die,
every time we went out fishing etc...meanwhile once I recovered from the heart surgery....I was in better shape than most of them...at least cardio wise...
and they kept on smoking....cigs etc..
That's part of the reason it was so nice to come here .. when GB and I kinda figured out, that we had managed to
meet up again for the second time...on-line thru a mutual interest...What were the chances....? anyhow I glad we did make that connection again....
since I have always admired GB's style...and consider him a friend....
As well ...I have met and got to know ... a few individuals from this forum and would be proud to call any of them a friend....You know who you all are...lol
Though we have never met Zoic... I would be happy to burn one with you ...I can just tell we would also hit it off...if we met in person....
would love to have you as a neighbour.
I say that "I'm fine" a lot of the time too,since who wants to hear about a massive list of ailments... but it does garner some strange looks from my doctors...
I was really stubborn about doing the work on this addition on my house....since I spent many years designing and building other peoples dream homes...hundreds of them...and when it finally became my turn to do something like this....boom health issues galore...
Now I am more likely to accept help from those who make genuine offers, since some things I can no longer do....like putting drywall up over my head...
I can't even attempt that kind of exertion...
Ha Ha..someones tryin to cause an uproar lol..That's so true....all of my original crew except one...bailed on me.... mostly after my heart operation,since I think they thought I was gonna die,
every time we went out fishing etc...meanwhile once I recovered from the heart surgery....I was in better shape than most of them...at least cardio wise...
and they kept on smoking....cigs etc..
That's part of the reason it was so nice to come here .. when GB and I kinda figured out, that we had managed to
meet up again for the second time...on-line thru a mutual interest...What were the chances....? anyhow I glad we did make that connection again....
since I have always admired GB's style...and consider him a friend....
As well ...I have met and got to know ... a few individuals from this forum and would be proud to call any of them a friend....You know who you all are...lol
Though we have never met Zoic... I would be happy to burn one with you ...I can just tell we would also hit it off...if we met in person....
would love to have you as a neighbour.
I say that "I'm fine" a lot of the time too,since who wants to hear about a massive list of ailments... but it does garner some strange looks from my doctors...
I was really stubborn about doing the work on this addition on my house....since I spent many years designing and building other peoples dream homes...hundreds of them...and when it finally became my turn to do something like this....boom health issues galore...
Now I am more likely to accept help from those who make genuine offers, since some things I can no longer do....like putting drywall up over my head...
I can't even attempt that kind of exertion...