My concern with trying to deny getting one is that the average household could care less about it, in fact, most average people would probably consider it a good thing, an upgrade. So if a guy goes fighting tooth and nail about getting one, I think it would raise suspicions on the tech side.
@budman111 this is the first time I've heard about them being able to cause fires.. You know of any links to articles I could read on that? And with it being more electronically advanced I'm sure it could be hacked in some sort, but who would even care to do that? How would hacking someone else's smart meter benefit the hacker?