Stain, my father-in-law hit my husband's tobacco (the man will walk around picking up crushed butts off the street to get his fucking tobacco fix) and OH MAN! All hell broke loose!
But, he cannot care for himself, so he stays as long as he is ambulatory (able to walk around).Yeah, what? If it's his home, should he not be able to leave it wherever he likes, though?With all due respect, that's only your call when it's your home. It's not appealing to you, but it's not your home nor your living situation. The man has a right to store things as he sees fit, as suits him.Huh? I do live at home. My home.
If I don't finish the beer (the occasional beer, I am a real lightweight and a cheap date
) then my father-in-law (who lives with us) will dump it into the jug where we put the leftover beer for my girls and take the bottle or can downstairs for his recycling.
Ok.. so you've got rules for acceptable places for your stash. But, they're
your rules, for you, for your home. Why should anyone else have to mind your rules in their home?HELLO!
Maybe I missed it, but.. I thought this guy has his own space. And if I recollect his sister is
visiting him. That implies to me a few things. First, she doesn't
live there. That makes her a guest. That means that guests have a certain code of behavior or ethics, and THAT means that you don't fuck with your host's shit, no matter what it is.
Second, as his guest, she was violating his generosity, abusing it. She seriously overstepped her bounds, which is something I'm a little sensitive to because I've got me a little sister who has the same tendencies (not to mention, she's an AWFUL guest!). She's one of the main reasons why we are, for the first time in five years, having Thanksgiving here at our home instead of traveling to my folks' place for the holiday.
Same here.
I just disagree with your stance, but that may be because I'm probably old enough to be
your mother and live in my own home.
By the way, if I find things like alcohol in my son's room (like when I go looking for dirty dishes), I don't touch it. He knows the deal and our family rules, which are that if he's going to drink he had better do it HERE where we can keep an eye on his silly ass.
Either way, I vehemently disagree with the notion that the person who's been ripped off is at fault here. I just do.