you know what? i'm happy with my "blind spot"...i try to be good to people, and i don't care what color they are. i try to treat everyone the same, and i don't care what country they come from. i do my best not to just believe stereotypes, to take people on a case by case basis.
if that's not good enough for the rest of you, i just don't give a shit. i'm not here to pass anyone's test. i think the rest of you would do well to take a few tests yourself. i manage 20 apartments , with 18 hispanic tenants....and i defy you to find one of them that will tell you i've ever said a damn racist thing to any of them, in ten years, treated any of them in anything but an entirely appropriate way....
i live in the real world, with real people, and i seem to be able to get along with all of them just fine. europeans, asians, middle easterners, black, white, brown and yellow....no problems getting along at all....no problems with them living next door....no problems eating next to them in restaurants, or shopping next to them in stores...so what fucking problem do i have? i think it's that i'm not contrite enough about being a white man...and i say fuck you to that...i'm NOT going to feel shame i don't think i deserve to feel, for things i didn't do, and have no control of...