Do me a favor and highlight the question. Your first post was a story in which I found no question. Later you asked grow-related matters which will get a better audience in the serious parts of this forum.
On a practical note, looks like you have enough light for four plants. The goal is to smoke what you can on the first grow but to have enough bud to tide you over til the second one is in the jars. Then you don’t need to get ribbed for smoking incidental grow debris and left-handedly bragging about it.
Neo didn’t bash you. That was a mild tease by T&T standards. To bring your grade up, my advice is that you simulate a thicker skin, and respond with an even more creative penis-based bit of smack talk. That’s winning around here.