Yeah I know how that feels, But if you just want to take that top one I see no harm, you said the trichs were milky so in some peoples mind that's just where they want them. The problem is as a younger person I would just cut and dry and smoke, now as an older smoker I know that I dry it, cure it etc... So it would still take a little time from harvest to smoke, but if you can get some stash to smoke and then the others would be more ready before you cut them go for it. Thats what your growing for right? I would be getting inpatient too. A person can only wait for so long. Now if it weren't this close to being done I would say WAIT, but we are talking a matter of days here, Go for it! 4 months is a long time to wait. I know where I am is I'm legal growing but am worried all the time about running out for the patients. So I keep a lot of plants, either cloning vegging or budding Good luck on what ever you decide to do. SMOKE< SMOKE< SMOKE LOL