zeddd is spewing racism and bigotry, treatment depends upon behavior. Gaslighting me as some kind of guilt ridden racist liberal wannabe is not helpful. If we meet in person I'd look you in the eye when we spoke. If he wants to be friends he should act like one, like I said, I think he's depressed and don't want to get into a fight with him or you over something stupid, from the perspective of many who will read this stuff or even care.
You have your perspective on these matters born of your experience and understanding, as do I, we are not exactly disagreeing on much here. I do try my best though to be the best person I can be, the happiest too, I have a plan and a viable method to achieve this end, most don't. Happiness is not the same as pleasure either, a junkie can feel that while their kids starve, happiness involves more than just ourselves.
Perhaps you should make a list of demands of others? A purity test? Apply it to yourself first though. Perhaps that will lead to "happiness", or to the suffering of conditionality?
Hint: No one has control over their mind, if we did we'd all be athletes, skinny, happy and content, conditioned things like addiction wouldn't make life Hell for many. I can prove this contention the same way the Buddha did 2600 years ago.