A Website for Married Dating and Affairs...

[chewy*barber]

"material sticks to the colon like spackle or paste"

no, nope, noda, can't do it

a classic example of the failure to find design in nature, sewage next to reproduction --

 

[jamiemichelle]

my mom was a cheating whore... i had to grow up with it and got drug around while she fucked around on my pops... effectively making me protect her, by me not choosing sides... i have no respect for people like that....

in my opinion, these guys (i say guys cause i am one, and im sure its predominately men) have the internet, why cant they just find a site and use their imagination while they pull one out??? hell, i do it all the time

My grandma who raised me was married to my papa for 38 years...she cheated on him and it ultimately ended in divorce and a lot of pain for the whole family. I was only 13 when it happened but with maturity, I understand the decisions she made...she would practically beg for his attention but didn’t get any. She wanted to keep together our family and didn’t think she would get caught.
Before they died this year they forgave each other (both of them) my Mema for cheating and my Papa for not being there. People make bad decisions but there are usually decent reasons behind them. I would never call her a whore for wanting to be loved.

 

[Florida Girl]

my mom was a cheating whore... i had to grow up with it and got drug around while she fucked around on my pops... effectively making me protect her, by me not choosing sides... i have no respect for people like that....

in my opinion, these guys (i say guys cause i am one, and im sure its predominately men) have the internet, why cant they just find a site and use their imagination while they pull one out??? hell, i do it all the time

My sisters ex-husband cheated on her TWICE while she was pregnant! She caught him the first time (before she knew she was pregnant) and kicked him to the curb.... he cried and begged and swore never again.... she took him back and then in the eighth month of her pregnancy he cheated again! I moved from Southern Cali. back up to Northern Cali. to help my sister get away from him. My sister was a wreck and dropped about 15 pounds from the stress of it all.... not exactly good for a baby ya know?

That fucking low-life prick is LUCKY he's not buried 6 feet under in my old backyard!

 

[Sunnysideup]

I personally don't care what the reason is....cheating is not acceptable. There are other options, like leaving. Nothing good comes from cheating...nothing.
Can anyone show me where something positive has come from someone cheating? No, of course not...because it is just not right.

 

[jamiemichelle]

Selfish? If a cheater brought home AIDS, herpes or genital warts I'd call that more then selfish... I'd call it criminal!


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Not true. I'm 42 and don't find that to be true at all. In fact of all my married friends I've only got one who is unhappy (sexually and just in general). Most of my friends are very happy and the way they tell it have open and candid discussions with their spouses about things they want and do.

Now that I think about it... all my married friends that are happy .... work outside the home... and the one that isn't happy has been a stay at home mom for the last 15 years. Hmmm....

Criminal yes, I’m not saying its right but it happens.

And that’s your circle of friends. I have known one couple out of many (I’m almost 30) who has stayed married happily. All of my married friends and acquaintances are unhappy -sad but true.
And of course a stay at home mom is going to get bored because she probably doesnt have that big of a social life and too much time on her hands.

 

[gogrow]

I personally don't care what the reason is....cheating is not acceptable. There are other options, like leaving. Nothing good comes from cheating...nothing.
Can anyone show me where something positive has come from someone cheating? No, of course not...because it is just not right.

i've only cheated on one girl, grant it i did it three seperate times, but the last girl i cheated on her with, i went on to marry; does that count.... but we are talking married cheats, not high school dating cheats... big difference there....

 

[Florida Girl]

My grandma who raised me was married to my papa for 38 years...she cheated on him and it ultimately ended in divorce and a lot of pain for the whole family. I was only 13 when it happened but with maturity, I understand the decisions she made...she would practically beg for his attention but didn’t get any. She wanted to keep together our family and didn’t think she would get caught.
Before they died this year they forgave each other (both of them) my Mema for cheating and my Papa for not being there. People make bad decisions but there are usually decent reasons behind them. I would never call her a whore for wanting to be loved.

I think it's hard to compare something from your grandparents era to today. In our grandparents time women had a lot less in terms of power over their situation. Generally they didn't work outside the home so they had no money to speak of. I think they were more 'STUCK' with the man they married.

I don't see this as the case today. Today women can get out and still have their family... just not their spouse. Women today are stronger and IMO have a better sense of self-worth. It's quite possible that if your mema were going through that in today's times she wouldn't have tolerated the coldness from your papa and sent him packing

 

[gogrow]

My grandma who raised me was married to my papa for 38 years...she cheated on him and it ultimately ended in divorce and a lot of pain for the whole family. I was only 13 when it happened but with maturity, I understand the decisions she made...she would practically beg for his attention but didn’t get any. She wanted to keep together our family and didn’t think she would get caught.
Before they died this year they forgave each other (both of them) my Mema for cheating and my Papa for not being there. People make bad decisions but there are usually decent reasons behind them. I would never call her a whore for wanting to be loved.

well, my stepdad treated her like a queen... and caught her cheating 4times... thats just the times he knew about... i know of several more... and she was a literal prostitute at one point in her life, and has not raised (for more than a few years) any of her 5children (by at least 3diff men), so i have no problem calling my moms a whore.... but i call it how i see it...

 

[Florida Girl]

I personally don't care what the reason is....cheating is not acceptable. There are other options, like leaving. Nothing good comes from cheating...nothing.
Can anyone show me where something positive has come from someone cheating? No, of course not...because it is just not right.

AMEN SISTER!!!!! I'd rep you for that... but I gotta spread the love first

 

[gogrow]

I think it's hard to compare something from your grandparents era to today. In our grandparents time women had a lot less in terms of power over their situation. Generally they didn't work outside the home so they had no money to speak of. I think they were more 'STUCK' with the man they married.

I don't see this as the case today. Today women can get out and still have their family... just not their spouse. Women today are stronger and IMO have a better sense of self-worth. It's quite possible that if your mema were going through that in today's times she wouldn't have tolerated the coldness from your papa and sent him packing

back when if you got a girl pregnant... you got a wife, end of story,,, i have to agree; again

 

[jamiemichelle]

I think it's hard to compare something from your grandparents era to today. In our grandparents time women had a lot less in terms of power over their situation. Generally they didn't work outside the home so they had no money to speak of. I think they were more 'STUCK' with the man they married.

I don't see this as the case today. Today women can get out and still have their family... just not their spouse. Women today are stronger and IMO have a better sense of self-worth. It's quite possible that if your mema were going through that in today's times she wouldn't have tolerated the coldness from your papa and sent him packing

I dont think it had to do with her self worth or not being able to kick him out, I think she just wanted affection and didnt want to ruin the role that they both played in our entire families lives. She also loved him very much but love doesnt always feel in the gap of affection you are missing out on.

 

[Florida Girl]

back when if you got a girl pregnant... you got a wife, end of story,,, i have to agree; again

HAHA... three times in one day. LOL... in the future when we debate the merits of being a good neighbor I'm going to think to myself.... "ok so we don't agree on this....... at least we agree on cheating thing" which is way more important IMO.

 

[jamiemichelle]

well, my stepdad treated her like a queen... and caught her cheating 4times... thats just the times he knew about... i know of several more... and she was a literal prostitute at one point in her life, and has not raised (for more than a few years) any of her 5children (by at least 3diff men), so i have no problem calling my moms a whore.... but i call it how i see it...

Well Im not saying its bad that you call her a whore... Ive called my own mom a whore numerous times on RIU.
I was giving an example in my life and how I understand the decisions my grandma made for cheating and she was only with one person, not multiple so I can see why you would call ur mom a whore...my mom was the same way just wasnt married when she was slutting it up.

 

[gogrow]

HAHA... three times in one day. LOL... in the future when we debate the merits of being a good neighbor I'm going to think to myself.... "ok so we don't agree on this....... at least we agree on cheating thing" which is way more important IMO.

and i'll remember that you are 42 and thats why you are so damn opinionated... its all good, at least you give me a challenge; alot of people dont even do that on here... gets boring.... but no, you probably wouldnt want to be my neighbor... not if your worried about property values... other than that, i think im a cool guy

 

[Florida Girl]

and i'll remember that you are 42 and thats why you are so damn opinionated... its all good, at least you give me a challenge; alot of people dont even do that on here... gets boring.... but no, you probably wouldnt want to be my neighbor... not if your worried about property values... other than that, i think im a cool guy

LOL... well from your description of your property it doesn't sound like you live in a residential neighborhood (can't even see your neighbors from your house) so my argument doesn't apply to you. When you live in the country / rural areas there is definitely more leeway on what being a good neighbor means....

Honestly my goal is to eventually leave the residential living life and move to a little piece of my own land where I have no neighbors in sight

 

[gogrow]

LOL... well from your description of your property it doesn't sound like you live in a residential neighborhood (can't even see your neighbors from your house) so my argument doesn't apply to you. When you live in the country / rural areas there is definitely more leeway on what being a good neighbor means....

Honestly my goal is to eventually leave the residential living life and move to a little piece of my own land where I have no neighbors in sight

well, i can see them, but only from certain spots in the yard, and only cause our property was cleared of all the pine trees last year; so in effect it was clear-cut... all we have is damn pine around here... alot of oaks, but they are mostly on the back 10.... you have to move out to somewhere more secluded.... esp if you are growing... we are sitting on 17acres and i love it... i still havent explored my whole yard... but in the country being a "good neighbor" means paying attention to what goes on next door (we watch each others backs), but minding your own business... they still value property and people's right to privacy.... you made me cringe in the other thread when you mentioned the "homeowner's association" (or w/ever it was worded as)... that phrase brings up horrible pictures in my head... of gated communities and the soccer moms with nothing to do but bitch about your grass being a 1/2in too high, and their nose so far up your ass they can smell your breath... i could never live like that.... and they charge you more for it... wtf???

sorry, i rant... move somewhere rural... you will love the change.

 

[Biggravy22]

Huh? What happened to Myspace? Married folks hook up alllllllllllll the time on there.

 

[Seamaiden]

and i'll remember that you are 42 and thats why you are so damn opinionated... its all good, at least you give me a challenge; alot of people dont even do that on here... gets boring.... but no, you probably wouldnt want to be my neighbor... not if your worried about property values... other than that, i think im a cool guy

I'm pretty opinionated, too. Shit! But, are you saying I don't challenge you?

 

[gogrow]

I'm pretty opinionated, too. Shit! But, are you saying I don't challenge you?

honestly, except for having to look up "hubris and hegemony".. no, not really,,, dont get me wrong, i do feel that you are intelligent, but its like we're on the same level... that's not a challenge; i do enjoy it though.... and dave, well, i just dont care for the way he operates... too cocky and above others... he would be a challenge face to face though, i'll give him that... i dont fare so well with face to face debates with attitudes like his... unless we could sit down and smoke fatties to keep the peace....maybe one day....

 

[dannyking]

I saw this a while back and thought it was a joke...I wanted to see who was on there in my area, so I am registered with that site.(the only way they will let you look at profiles) I did recognize one person on there that I know....now I am sorry I looked.
I am personally not for this, I think it makes a mockery out of marriage....

I actually did the same a while ago on a similar site. honestly just to see if i knew anyone on it. well this girl took an interest in my profile and started emailing me. i blocked the emails as i have a girlfriend whom i love very much. Well this other girl found my myspace page and went onto my girlfriends page and started leaving her messages saying im a cheater and im all over the internet looking for sex. fucking freak. could have gotten me in a lot of trouble. Thankfully my girlfriend and I have more trust than that.

oh back to the question. No i dont have any reguards for these sites and have no respect for married people who use them. its disgusting.