Thanks, luckily im in the north so the cold season is coming. Im going to remove the AC soon and that should help. Also upgraded my fans, surge protector, and cutting back on the load for that breaker because the breaker runs to a few outlets in the other rooms on the otherside of the wall in the grow room. I am pulling a max 1300w at full load on 20A breaker. No problems since and everything is checking in fine. New upgrades will be here this weekend. (1900w would start to see issues?)
the issue also happened the night after i tripped the breaker with a hair-dryer. not sure if this adds anything to the equation.