I don't think you are being a dick, just more logical! I have have had it my mind, as long as I have the right set up that's efficient, small, drawing minimal power with a light that doesn't raise curiosity to helicopters, use of minimal power outage, the right carbon filter and fan that leaks no smells that extract heat without no one noticing I will be fine and will settle. I don't talk my business and keep myself to myself, barely have any visitors so this has made me think I will be ok. I think it's more the case of better to be cautious knowing I have covered all that I can to safer than sorry to feel ok about going down this route.