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[gogrow]

I wasnt making you out to be a whiney bitch and trust me when I was a kid a lotta stuff happened to me (earlier I mentioned my Mema raised me cuz my Mom was a fuck up - like child abuse, malnutrioned til I was almost dead, left alone as an infant,dudes galore, seen her do coke regularly) so I apologize if you took it that way. I'm saying as an adult you look at things from a dif perspective than you were as a kid. I think the things I saw my Mom do when I was young made me into a better person and a better mother today. I don't still hate on her for what she did because it doesnt get me any where. People make mistakes and at the same time Im not lowering my emotional state at this point of my life because of anyones mistakes but my own.

otay....reckon i misunderstood your wording, but like you, life was alot worse as a child than i have divulged.... and i agree, it did give me a different outlook and make me a good parent... i attribute my level of wisdom for my young years to my childhood.... life like that either makes you a determined mofo or a whiney bitch... im a determined mofo... i know how NOT to raise a child, so i am determined to do the opposite for my children... the only way im failing so far is i am still in the poverty level... but we are on the upswing... but unlike you, i still hate on my mother, but she hasnt changed one bit... she actually just lost her last child to OCS, way too late though, the poor girl is about 13; but i think she has a good head on her shoulders; at least i hope so, cause i dont even want to think about the things she may have been put through... thanks for clarifying though

 

[jamiemichelle]

otay....reckon i misunderstood your wording, but like you, life was alot worse as a child than i have divulged.... and i agree, it did give me a different outlook and make me a good parent... i attribute my level of wisdom for my young years to my childhood.... life like that either makes you a determined mofo or a whiney bitch... im a determined mofo... i know how NOT to raise a child, so i am determined to do the opposite for my children... the only way im failing so far is i am still in the poverty level... but we are on the upswing... but unlike you, i still hate on my mother, but she hasnt changed one bit... she actually just lost her last child to OCS, way too late though, the poor girl is about 13; but i think she has a good head on her shoulders; at least i hope so, cause i dont even want to think about the things she may have been put through... thanks for clarifying though

Yeah Im not that much of a raging bitch I promise I just have a big thing about judging people is all...and like I said before I still dont think its right, I just think people make mistakes and some people really do love their spouses they just need more sex. It doesnt make it ok, I think I just look at it dif than everyone else. Like theres way worse stuff that goes on than that.
My Mom really hasnt changed either, minus shes not a whore or a druggie. But she is a selfish alchy that puts herself in front of everyone else...and after fighting her so long to get her to change and being sad about what I went through, I finally just thought to myself - what good is this doing for me being upset at what shes done cuz obviously shes fucked up in the head right? I mean she kicked me out of the house when I was 8 at 1am after my stepdad beat my ass and hours of her calln me a monster...hurts but hey what can I do cant change it sooo here I am today and I am independent, an overacheiver like urself, not rich yet but I will be and an awesome mom and I know Im like this cuz of what Ive been through.
And sorry about your sister, but even though she shoulda left your mom earlier, 13 is still a lot of time to help her have a better life.

 

[bearo420]

hey everybody, please have all your slutty moms msg me, thanks
bearo420

 

[gogrow]

Yeah Im not that much of a raging bitch I promise I just have a big thing about judging people is all...and like I said before I still dont think its right, I just think people make mistakes and some people really do love their spouses they just need more sex. It doesnt make it ok, I think I just look at it dif than everyone else. Like theres way worse stuff that goes on than that.
My Mom really hasnt changed either, minus shes not a whore or a druggie. But she is a selfish alchy that puts herself in front of everyone else...and after fighting her so long to get her to change and being sad about what I went through, I finally just thought to myself - what good is this doing for me being upset at what shes done cuz obviously shes fucked up in the head right? I mean she kicked me out of the house when I was 8 at 1am after my stepdad beat my ass and hours of her calln me a monster...hurts but hey what can I do cant change it sooo here I am today and I am independent, an overacheiver like urself, not rich yet but I will be and an awesome mom and I know Im like this cuz of what Ive been through.
And sorry about your sister, but even though she shoulda left your mom earlier, 13 is still a lot of time to help her have a better life.

wish i was at a point in life where i could help her out, but we are struggling right now ourselves... but OCS gave my mom and her ole man a list of shit to do if they want to get her back... but if they dont pull it off in time (fingers crossed and praying) then she goes to my grandparents, who raised me...

 

[gogrow]

hey everybody, please have all your slutty moms msg me, thanks
bearo420

wish i could; seems like you deserve some herpes

 

[jamiemichelle]

wish i was at a point in life where i could help her out, but we are struggling right now ourselves... but OCS gave my mom and her ole man a list of shit to do if they want to get her back... but if they dont pull it off in time (fingers crossed and praying) then she goes to my grandparents, who raised me...

Well hopefully she will grow up and be happy. Bein a teen is already rough, but dealin w that makes it even rougher. But you can help her out in other ways besides bein there for her financially but for her emotionally and showing you care...which Im sure you already do; she will remember that you were there in one way or another no matter what.

 

[bearo420]

wish i could; seems like you deserve some herpes

no infected moms please, thanks.

 

[gogrow]

Well hopefully she will grow up and be happy. Bein a teen is already rough, but dealin w that makes it even rougher. But you can help her out in other ways besides bein there for her financially but for her emotionally and showing you care...which Im sure you already do; she will remember that you were there in one way or another no matter what.

havent really been able to... because of the POS she lives with, i dont even know where she is at, or how to get in touch with her most of the time.... one of the reasons i hope she does end up with my grandparents... maybe once a year is the most contact we have had lately... i would love to though, as i am the only one of her siblings that actually know what she is going through... my 3lil brothers were raised by my stepdad from extremely young ages after she walked out on them... she has had 5 children and has yet to fully raise one of them..... maybe things will change soon though and we can have a relationship with each other (me and sis)

 

[jamiemichelle]

havent really been able to... because of the POS she lives with, i dont even know where she is at, or how to get in touch with her most of the time.... one of the reasons i hope she does end up with my grandparents... maybe once a year is the most contact we have had lately... i would love to though, as i am the only one of her siblings that actually know what she is going through... my 3lil brothers were raised by my stepdad from extremely young ages after she walked out on them... she has had 5 children and has yet to fully raise one of them..... maybe things will change soon though and we can have a relationship with each other (me and sis)

Ya my mom only had me and one of my sisters and pretty much gave both of us up...she would have about 5 though with all her abortions. She actually got prego when I was 17 by someone who I went to high school with.
But anyway good luck with your sister, if your mom gave up on the others she will on her too so hopefully soon you two can build a strong relationship that will foster her healing.

 

[gogrow]

Ya my mom only had me and one of my sisters and pretty much gave both of us up...she would have about 5 though with all her abortions. She actually got prego when I was 17 by someone who I went to high school with.
But anyway good luck with your sister, if your mom gave up on the others she will on her too so hopefully soon you two can build a strong relationship that will foster her healing.

hopefully so... i gotta get some sleep... we are watching a friends lil girl for the weekend; her and my son pop up at dawn (both 2yrs).. night sweetie

 

[jamiemichelle]

hopefully so... i gotta get some sleep... we are watching a friends lil girl for the weekend; her and my son pop up at dawn (both 2yrs).. night sweetie

Gnite Yup Im not sure why Im still up at this point...lol.

 

[Stoney McFried]

I never said past.I said, if you can't keep your dick out of other chicks when you're seeing me...then you better let me know, I have a right to say it's not for me...Because if I catch you...I will fuck with you for years.

Yeah you def wanna be sure your partner and yourself are tested for stds...but what my partner has done in their sexual past is none of my business and frankly I dont wanna know.
Listen, Im not saying cheating is great, Im not trying to be a cheerleader for it or anything. Im just saying who has the right to judge a person/people for what they do. If someone makes a decision as an adult, then yay for them - they deal with the consequences.

 

[Seamaiden]

Wow, you guys have made me SO appreciate and love my own mother so much more. She was a fucking TIGRESS when it came to her little girls. And she still is if we let her.

 

[gogrow]

Wow, you guys have made me SO appreciate and love my own mother so much more. She was a fucking TIGRESS when it came to her little girls. And she still is if we let her.

and our mothers have made us some wonderfull parents; so i guess i wouldnt change anything even if i could... if i had grown up differently, i may not be the father i am today

 

[jamiemichelle]

I never said past.I said, if you can't keep your dick out of other chicks when you're seeing me...then you better let me know, I have a right to say it's not for me...Because if I catch you...I will fuck with you for years.

Oops well my bad, I musta misread. Sorry
And years? Wow no dude who cheats on me is worth years of my time. Maybe a good ass beating by one of my guy friends, or some good retaliation of some sorts...but def not years.

The last guy I was messin with I found out had a live in gf; pissed me off but I just told him off and let em go...we didnt have sex though, but he did lead me on to believe I was the only one. I was tempted to email his gf a pic (shes a doc so her email wont be hard to find) he sent of his cock that says "Jamies toy" accross it just to get him in trouble; still contimplating, this was recent.

 

[Seamaiden]

and our mothers have made us some wonderfull parents; so i guess i wouldnt change anything even if i could... if i had grown up differently, i may not be the father i am today

Yeah, I'm not cracking that way. I'm just saying that sometimes I don't think I appreciate my mother enough, and this has helped me in that regard.

 

[gogrow]

Yeah, I'm not cracking that way. I'm just saying that sometimes I don't think I appreciate my mother enough, and this has helped me in that regard.

i know... ive learned how to read your posts most of the time towhere i dont take em the wrong way.... sometimes though

 

[Stoney McFried]

Well, if he messes around, I wanna make him pay.I tend to be a vengeful little shit.Send his girl the pic.You'll be doing her a favor.Would you want to know?

Oops well my bad, I musta misread. Sorry
And years? Wow no dude who cheats on me is worth years of my time. Maybe a good ass beating by one of my guy friends, or some good retaliation of some sorts...but def not years.

The last guy I was messin with I found out had a live in gf; pissed me off but I just told him off and let em go...we didnt have sex though, but he did lead me on to believe I was the only one. I was tempted to email his gf a pic (shes a doc so her email wont be hard to find) he sent of his cock that says "Jamies toy" accross it just to get him in trouble; still contimplating, this was recent.

 

[Seamaiden]

Stoney..? Vengeful?

 

[Stoney McFried]

Yeah, if someone fucks around on me, it enrages me, because he could have just broken up with me.But if he's off sticking it in some skeevy slut and risking the health of my box without my knowledge...then yeah, I will make him sorry.

Stoney..? Vengeful?