The only thing I can suggest is that you try to find a mindful elementary school in your area, there are several organizations that promote this and have extensive programs. The attached site will help you to find one or perhaps promote one in your district.
This can help a lot with both her emotional strength and resilience, and to have a loving empathetic community to learn and flourish in. There are more organizations than this, but this is the largest and there might be a school near you. This can help any child to be happy and flourish and keeps teachers from burning out and inflicting their issues on the children. If you want better citizens, you invest for the long haul, but in this case you don't need to invest much money, just love and caring.
Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Have a peek Baldrick, share it with your wife and child and see what they think.
Mindful Schools | Mindfulness for Your School, Teachers, and Students