Individuals make choices. If all the individuals in a given group chose the same thing, there's a consensus. What they chose can be good, bad or indifferent. The process of how they chose the thing, is separate from any intrinsic good or bad contained within the thing they chose. Yet a process itself can be bad. For instance, political democracies are generally bad, in the sense that they rely on force against otherwise peaceful people who don't want to be subsumed by a group of people claiming authority over them without their individual explicit consent.
First, no group of individuals have ever all chosen the same thing, anywhere, ever.
Second, the vast majority of laws generally surround imposition onto someone else, so this scenario where you're just sitting there minding your own business and to then be "subsumed by a group of people claiming authority over them", doesn't really exist.
If some individuals chose another person to be your leader and you didn't want that person as a leader, yet that person is imposed on you anyway under threat of force, the person is actually a master and not a leader. Sort of like gang rape. Sad that you like rapist tactics. Scary too.
That's what the rough majority has decided since the beginning. This is where your narcissism is showing, somehow thinking you're special with rights that overpower everyone else. Sorry things happen in life that you don't want. Welcome to sentience, or, near-sentience anyway.
If something is both practical and violates others rights, it's wrong to do. If something is impractical and violates others rights, it's also wrong to do. Stop trying to rationalize wrongful things.
The problem is with what you think your rights are. Nobody's violating your rights as society has deemed them. The rights you're referring to are your own and I don't doubt that the rights you've created are being violated. If it's as important to you as you seem to convey, you should try to go somewhere where you can live closer to how you want, because no society is going to change their framework for you, again, displaying your exceedingly inflated self-view.
My perspective isn't narcissistic or self centered, since it respects others rights to make their own choices, while your perspective disrespects those choices.
Except the choices of those who structured society and the majority that want society a certain way, but sure, yourself the five other guys that think like you, I'm sure you respect their rights.
I really wish you'd consider being nicer to people that don't want to support your ideas.
No mirrors in your house I'm guessing.
Threatening them with force rather than using peaceful persuasion shows a lack of compassion and might mean your ideas suck too.
If you want to live somewhere and insist on violating others rights, don't be surprised when people want to distance from you.
Life is hard outside.
