I have a girlfriend that I have been fooling around with on and off since the age of 15. We finally reconnected 8 years ago and she moved in after a few months.
We fall out alot cause I don't trust her and she does funny things. After 7 years we fell out and she moved with her mother. She had already gotten mean and want no sex. Yelling at me , sleeping at the other end of the bed, getting agrivated when I touch her while we sleep.
She kept staying over every weekend but goes back to her mother's every week for work to take a work van. She won't let me take her to work.eveytime I ask the simplest of questions she snaps telling me to stop asking her questions, but gets jealous and ask me a few questions a month.
Now my sister died she came to move back in, took off work 2 weeks of work for my sister death. I buy her things but she never left until she got her job 8 months ago out of 8 years. She's ran alot in the past but not like this. She's always right, and watch all her shows on tv.
She does things for me but now her daughter missing and I can't use her phone and blocked from her Facebook. But when she's here she's with me all of the time..what's going on.
Remember 'Gimp Man', from Pulp Fiction?
I'm afraid you have positioned yourself in this relationship thusly.
Unless, that is the relationship you crave. In which case ..don your 'ball-gag' and be thankful to your mistress!
Otherwise, listen to the sage words of others posting here and:
Get the **** out of Dodge!
But, what do I know.
Nature treated me too kindly.
It gave me a six inch tongue
And the ability to breath through my ears