So, what is this thread even about anymore? I can't tell by the last four pages. Did not bother going back further.
I had a girl grab my ass in a bar I used to frequent many moons ago. I jumped, (it was still early in the evening, at least for me). I guess it was not the result she wanted and she scurried away fast. Heck, it could have been a guy for all I knew. At the end of the evening the band went off to the side of the stage while everyone was making noise for an encore. She goes up to the mic, the band is like, (what is going on?) she says she is leaving town tomorrow so if she gets barred so be it. Then she starts belting Mercedes Benz by Janis Joplin acapella, she had the whole bar clapping and stomping with her.
So even in the 90's that was pretty inappropriate, a grabbing thing. I did not feel like, "Hey, some chick just grabbed my ass, all right." No, it felt dirty in a not nice way. Probably why she scurried away real fast afterward. When she was singing I did realize I saw here around on occasion, never had a reason to think one way or the other about her. But I guess she was feeling frisky her last night in town. Too bad, if she took a little more subtle introduction she might have got luck that night.
Nobody likes to feel violated. Well, guess some people do. But I would not know about that because I have rob on ignore.