some people really care and will often become derogatory at me being a female, they will say things that are trying to down grade me and my efforts here, by the gender i am.
They will often threaten me with rape towards me while they do it infront of my child to watch etc etc
Be wary. Those kinds of threats are indications of possible mental illness.
Most of these cretins are just blowhards but you never know.
I have a nephew with Asperger's syndrome who has been banned and blocked from social media for making similar misogynistic threats. He has proven capable of violence having assaulted his father on occasion and he also attacked a Walmart cashier. Scary guy.
"Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent"
Sorry you have to put up with that kind of shit, intelligent people understand what you are about. Stay the course.