I agree. I like to feel like I have as much input as my partner. It's comforting to know that you can be loved and trusted for who you are inside. Some people like that. I'm one...
Each to their own, I guess. I couldn't enjoy being controlled in the bedroom, but that's just me. I have certain issues... I don't enjoy 'having sex', I like to make love. Sometimes I am submissive, and other times he's happy to lie back and let me be the dominant one. Our love life is both exciting and spicy... and if he wants something special, all he has to do is ask. No matter what it is, he's earned it by giving me the love that I need and letting me keep my self respect.
If you and your wife both enjoy rough sex, who has the right to tell you it's wrong? As long as you don't toss her around so much that it leaves bruises, it's all good, I guess. But a little variety really doesn't go astray. Who knows, one night you might even try making her beg for it by teasing her gently until she breaks. She might even enjoy tossing you around once in a while... have you thought about that?
Me too! What date is your birthday?