I dunno if I'm wrong or how to approach this situation... ** INSIGHT PLEASE**

fdd2blk

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I'm kinda caught in the crossfire, I never once approached with intent to do this kinda shit... I know I hurt a good friend, Its pretty obvious... I'm not a retard... I'm caught in the middle of shit

but just cause they used to be fuck buddies back in high school means that she's off limits???

I could see it if she was an actual ex girlfriend, and not some booty call from the get go...

IMO, i dont see the connection outside of running into each other at parties and through mutual acquaintances...

I didn't back stab him, by getting her number out of his phone without him knowing...Never looked her up online or anything like that...

I never honestly seen this going beyond going on a couple of dates...


she gave me her number, I never asked for it.. She initiated contact..

i do have this sneaking suspicion that a shit storm is going to brew in my face in the next few days because of this single incident ...

this shit is fuckin with my head... I hate these games females play...



tell him all this, as soon as possible. he's your buddy, lay it all out. :blsmoke::peace:
 

Big P

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yes may as well hash it out if u guys are good friends


also your hunch could be right she may could be using u or playing games so dont were your heart on your sleeve not sayin you are just sayin

also watch out for sabotage from his side, he may call her all pissed and ruin the "whole affair" if you will, if there is any sabotage from his end he should know better....specially since hes been cheatin on his ol lady:blsmoke:




these things are complicated.....let us smoke a whilebongsmilie
 

Big P

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I just hope you all use condoms.There are people getting passed back and forth like a bowl of mashed taters....


lol



ooooo now that im high how about this solution, what u do is flip it on them

u go to her and act all like the better man and tell her about your concern for your freinds feelings, and how u feel kinda bad bla bla bla, not tottally dissing her but kinda keeping things a little mysterious, and make him out to be a kinda blubbering sap

then you go to your buddy and hash it out with him and tell him all the good reasons why your right and hes being a dick for being pissed. reasons like how shes the one who approched you and the he has a gurlfriend anyway and even other sex partners too on top of that,

then tell him after all that, that u told the chick how u werent sure where this could go cuz u didnt wanna hurt him bla bla bla


this way u kill 2 birds with 1 stone

firstly u make the gurl like u more cuz u dont seem too desprate. you know, making her think that its not that u dont like her but just maybe things wouldnt be right yada yada

and then u also gain simpathy from your friend who now thinks u actaully care about his whining



but all the while u still go out with her and proceed as normal




im startin to think your friend may be taking advantage of you anyway by acting pissed mainly cuz he got all this other pussy and u only got this one right now, i mean what kind of freind is he?


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Adamus P.R.I.M.E.

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I just hope you all use condoms.There are people getting passed back and forth like a bowl of mashed taters....
I ain't no fool... I wrapped the tool... Too irresponsible for kids...

im startin to think your friend may be taking advantage of you anyway by acting pissed mainly cuz he got all this other pussy and u only got this one right now, i mean what kind of friend is he?
I'm the "non threat" cause I never have talked to any of these females, I'm the guy that plays pool all night long, get high all the time, and doesn't pay attention to half of whats said to him the first time...

I know whats going through his head...
"I'm not supposed to be able to pull a female like that.. "

I know where I fucked up, but I don't think that I am in the wrong... if I boned his Ol' Lady, it would be different...
 
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