It's OK, I give everyone their socks in a big pile, screw that sock matching I've got shit to do.
You should pick a spot that is where the bong lives, you can remove it from that spot for use, but the moment you are done, put it back. Housework goes much more smoothly when you're nice and bongly baked.
That saying about a place for everything and everything in it's place, I used to think it was anal drivel, but after being a mom for a good 23 years, I learned that saying can save your sanity. Now most things in my home have a place where they belong, the family gets used to them being there too and can sometimes find what they want without having to bug you !!!