for a 3x6 table i would advise getting at the least a 50 gallon res.. 70 would be ideal, and any larger would be best..
when thinking about your res, you have to understand that the bigger the res you have, the more ppm and ph stability that you have, which means your plants will be healthier and happier, not to mention less res changes and fluctuations.
and depending on your medium you can go with a few different pump sizes.. larger pumps would be more for hydroton so that it fills and drains quickly, since your feeding times would be close together, and if you are using something like coco or rockwool that holds a large amount of water, you dont need a large pump because you will only be feeding a few times a day
hope this helps
FLo