delusion
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So I was planning on growing with a good buddy of mine... Guy has all the time in the world, as he has no job. We discuss things we will need and a budget. I have some things from a previous grow and he, some how, has money to throw in.
Well i find out this money of his is from his ex gf. im like umm thats a bad idea right? well... ex gf says "you can use my house too, heres my money." Then i think well ok maybe itll work cuz shes not a crazy ex shes actually real cool. well then i find out my buddy gets another girl involved because he decides without telling me that he doesnt want his ex involved anymore so he will move right on to someone new, with money.
We ordered a couple things and before i got home that night i find out hes already told 2 of his best friends so now 6 people know and only 2 are really involved. i sleep on it, wake up in the morning with a bad feeling. I was suppose to sell some belongings of mine that same day to add to the budget, ...fell through and then the storage that i left my light and other equipment at.... well it was no longer there.
So I thought id be a fuckin idiot to not read the signs and back out. So i call him and tell him how i felt and said man were pushing it im out and hes like "thats find im still gunna do it. But can i still ask you for help and stuff." I was like ... dude hello. if you ask me for help im therefor involved and i expect compensation for my knowledge. Rightfully so i think. Considering he doesnt know shit clearly otherwise he would of kept his mouth shut. he can read on the internet all he wants but i know without me he cant do anything... he blew it before it started i should steer clear completely.
Do you think i was being irrational here or do you think this is a dissaster waiting to happen?
Well i find out this money of his is from his ex gf. im like umm thats a bad idea right? well... ex gf says "you can use my house too, heres my money." Then i think well ok maybe itll work cuz shes not a crazy ex shes actually real cool. well then i find out my buddy gets another girl involved because he decides without telling me that he doesnt want his ex involved anymore so he will move right on to someone new, with money.
We ordered a couple things and before i got home that night i find out hes already told 2 of his best friends so now 6 people know and only 2 are really involved. i sleep on it, wake up in the morning with a bad feeling. I was suppose to sell some belongings of mine that same day to add to the budget, ...fell through and then the storage that i left my light and other equipment at.... well it was no longer there.
So I thought id be a fuckin idiot to not read the signs and back out. So i call him and tell him how i felt and said man were pushing it im out and hes like "thats find im still gunna do it. But can i still ask you for help and stuff." I was like ... dude hello. if you ask me for help im therefor involved and i expect compensation for my knowledge. Rightfully so i think. Considering he doesnt know shit clearly otherwise he would of kept his mouth shut. he can read on the internet all he wants but i know without me he cant do anything... he blew it before it started i should steer clear completely.
Do you think i was being irrational here or do you think this is a dissaster waiting to happen?
