a question mainly for the guys...

zeke907

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This is quite an interesting thread. lol. It has been funny and enlightening. Haha. I would say it's a toss up, because me personally, I love a woman with curves and meat on her bones. I don't dislike skinny girls, but girls with meat on there bones have very nicely accentuated curves. And gives a brotha something to work with ya feel me, something to get a hold of when you bumpin and grindin ya know. lol. And the reason I say it would be a toss up, well I think all women are beautiful. Plain and simple, granted some are more attractive than others, but all beautiful nonetheless.
 

sarah22

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I dont understand why girls wanna stay fat... with all the diet pills and programs and exercises that are available girls are still too lazy to take care of themselves, its just sad really, I had a lot fat girl friends and they were really cool to smoke with and it really bathered me that they were fat because 3 of them had a pretty face but their weight made me not wanna hit on them.

But thats just my opinion, sarah if you dont have a problem with being overweight then good for you, as long as you are happy and have guys hit on you then thats all that matters.
its not that im lazy. i work out formally with weights and cardio and all that stuff, but informally as well when i play soccer with my dog and stuff like that...i realized when i was losing a lot of weight that i was losing cup sizes off my boobs. i love having a nice rack. plain and simple. i decided i would rather have nice boobs than a flat stomach. i also have a pretty nice ass :hump: and i have very few complaints from guys...lol. i think that fat girls can be a little intimidating...and not just because we could break bones by sitting on you...hahahaha! lol i think guys are afraid of me because i know who i am, what i want, and where im going. im also fairly intelligent, with a reasonably high level of self confidence. a lot of guys dont like strong independent women...and a lot of fat girls have had to become strong independent women in order to cope with society's views of body type and beauty. now dont get me wrong...there are *plenty* of strong independent women that are in great shape...but people who have had to suffer possess a different kind of strength. and im certainly not saying that all fat people suffer, or that only fat people suffer...but im just saying, that as a whole...we are judged based on appearance more so than any other trait we possess. and that has to stop. if someone wants to judge me negatively based on some sort of unacceptable behaviour i exhibit...i totally understand that. but you shouldnt ever judge someone based on outside appearances and your own assumptions. im not saying that all guys should find fat girls attractive...you're always going to have one particular physical trait that turns you off for whatever reason. im just trying to stop people from automatically thinking that because we're overweight we're lazy and all we eat is junk and blah blah blah...aside from being overweight im physically healthy. and lots of other girls are too...
 

sarah22

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the smart one!:bigjoint:!
i like this answer :D this is my way of thinking too. i will always pick the smart guy over the dumb guy...regardless of who is initially more attractive to me.
*edit* that sounded awful...i could probably have picked better wording for that...my apologies.
 

Babs34

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looks dont get you anywhere in life this country is full of sexy attractive looking females who have slept with 20 guys by the time their 18

full of dumb ones that cant keep me interested for more then a week:clap:

why are there so many good looking bitches on this side of the world with nobrains??
Because there are so many shallow men in the world? I dunno.....I'll add women to that list.
Society is conditioned to see beauty as what is the "Norm." These days, that usually means bone skinny with big boobs.
But you know what? There really are beautiful women with brains. They are usually the ones who get the worst rap too. They are often the ones you glance at and immediately judge as being good for nothing other than eye candy. I guess they will only get an ounce of respect when they get "older."
Society, as a whole, is pretty damn pathetic.
 

Stoney McFried

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Great answer!!!!
its not that im lazy. i work out formally with weights and cardio and all that stuff, but informally as well when i play soccer with my dog and stuff like that...i realized when i was losing a lot of weight that i was losing cup sizes off my boobs. i love having a nice rack. plain and simple. i decided i would rather have nice boobs than a flat stomach. i also have a pretty nice ass :hump: and i have very few complaints from guys...lol. i think that fat girls can be a little intimidating...and not just because we could break bones by sitting on you...hahahaha! lol i think guys are afraid of me because i know who i am, what i want, and where im going. im also fairly intelligent, with a reasonably high level of self confidence. a lot of guys dont like strong independent women...and a lot of fat girls have had to become strong independent women in order to cope with society's views of body type and beauty. now dont get me wrong...there are *plenty* of strong independent women that are in great shape...but people who have had to suffer possess a different kind of strength. and im certainly not saying that all fat people suffer, or that only fat people suffer...but im just saying, that as a whole...we are judged based on appearance more so than any other trait we possess. and that has to stop. if someone wants to judge me negatively based on some sort of unacceptable behaviour i exhibit...i totally understand that. but you shouldnt ever judge someone based on outside appearances and your own assumptions. im not saying that all guys should find fat girls attractive...you're always going to have one particular physical trait that turns you off for whatever reason. im just trying to stop people from automatically thinking that because we're overweight we're lazy and all we eat is junk and blah blah blah...aside from being overweight im physically healthy. and lots of other girls are too...
 

joker152

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I would pick the nice one!
True beauty is on the inside.:peace:
she said assume their both nice, i dont know..... what are we talking about here? are we putting the perfect personality in a body and choosing between two different bodies? if so, does the skinny ugly chick have any boobs at all? how skinny? aww fuck it i would choose the pretty fat chick. hell i already have the pretty fat chick i guess... she got a hell of a rack and shes around your size sara22, too bad shes gotten really mean lately.......
 

sarah22

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she said assume their both nice, i dont know..... what are we talking about here? are we putting the perfect personality in a body and choosing between two different bodies? if so, does the skinny ugly chick have any boobs at all? how skinny? aww fuck it i would choose the pretty fat chick. hell i already have the pretty fat chick i guess... she got a hell of a rack and shes around your size sara22, too bad shes gotten really mean lately.......
rail her harder. then she'll be to tired to be mean...hahaha j/k.
 

Babs34

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hahaha see?! this is an example of expanding your horizons and not judging based on appearance! :clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:<---standing ovation...
LOL, don't you know that men only "begin" to grow up starting at age 50? Sad thing they usually have to lose their ability to have an erection to do so. :-|
 

sarah22

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LOL, don't you know that men only "begin" to grow up starting at age 50? Sad thing they usually have to lose their ability to have an erection to do so. :-|
thats a choice. i know plenty of guys in their 20's and even in their teens who are mature, open minded, non-judgemental people...stop blaming your penis for everything! hehehe i joke i joke...:bigjoint:
 

moonglum

Active Member
Beauty is in the eye peeholder and fat girls can loose weight but ugly girls will just get uglier!
 

SalCato

Active Member
Sarah, I've noticed that you've touched on this subject a few times. What gives?? Is there a particular reason? You don't seem to have any shortage of "suitors", right? I mean, you said hot guys hit on you alot. So, what's wrong? Are you asking for a friend or something?
But personally, I've seen your pics before. I've already complimented you, so you know what I think.
 
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