if u dont want to be considered a bitch then u shud maybe consider what ur gonna say and how might the other person take it? believe me i know. im a music producer and sometimes i get some "not so talented" artists... instead of telling them you guys suck, i tell them "hey maybe do this different, or hey u shud do this like this or that like that." or you can just be an asshole and say things however u want, its called common sense not to be a bitch, but if u cant really help it then that really sux honestly, a little kindness never hurt nobody, if ur grandma asks how dinner was your not gonna say "damn grandma i didnt like it, it tasted like shit." u get my point?