I used to have the same problem, but I switched wives, and then GF's several times lol until I settled on one I liked. Of course there is still BS to deal with, but not like some of the shit I used to have to deal with.
Most women (I'll get in trouble for this lol) want a man to be a real man. Make a decision instead of letting her make them.
For instance: Next time she says she wants to go to DQ, take her to 31 flavors and then point out how much better it is than DQ. And you should decide what movies you want to rent, then at least you'll enjoy the movie, while she's whining. lol
I'm just saying take charge, or you will be irritated, and she won't respect you unless you stand up to her once in a while.