Cops Take Kids Away Because Of Bath Pics

[lemonjellow]

to hell with walmart . i did like to shop there , but my 4 year old son is off the wall some times , im afraid they might have my kids takin away for tryin to straighten him up lol. really though all jokes aside , i will shop at walmart NO MORE, even if they do have good prices . fuck em . i have a super k mart, target and meijers.

 

[nickfury510]

they are too young to understand, but I have apologized to mine already for bringing them into such a messed up world... but regardless of how things are going, I would never give these guys up if I could go back... all I can do is prepare them for the world they are going into soon the best that I and my wife possibly can.... after that, it is up to them.

its all good brother. just hug and love your kids and when life gives them gifts they will be thanking you for bringing them into the world

 

[nickfury510]

I am assuming you mean if they saw the worst of what really goes on in the country BECAUSE of the govt..... because thats all the news is, the worst of our people... thats how the govt gets their excessive power; show the country (4x a day) the worst of people to make them scared and feel like they
need protection.

thats how hitler did it.

 

[420OldSchoolDJ420]

I am assuming you mean if they saw the worst of what really goes on in the country BECAUSE of the govt..... because thats all the news is, the worst of our people... thats how the govt gets their excessive power; show the country (4x a day) the worst of people to make them scared and feel like they
need protection.

yea pretty much.. They are controlling the masses via TV/Radio propoganda.. But the really worst stuff they dont like to show as much.. Like people freezing to death in the U.S... Or elderly people having to eat dog food because they cant afford real food.. Or people that die from sickness because they dont have insurance.. Canada and the UK has universal healthcare.. Why dont we? But these things would put the GVT in a "bad light" so its swept under the rug or not talked about..

 

[420OldSchoolDJ420]

thats how hitler did it.

lol

 

[Dirty Harry]

.... the point is that your wife can attack you, break her wrist on the top of your head, and then run to the battered womens bureau and have you arrested and your kids taken "from your custody".... then, it can be proved in the same day that she is a lying bitch, and all she has to do is scream "he touches the kids" and you will be arrested... again, and have your children taken.... again.... all while mother is at her newest boyfriend's house, not giving a damn about where her children are.....


yes.... the system is fucked.

Bro, I am a member of that club! Trying to make a long story short, Wife at the time and I got into a heated argument. It was bad but not physical. I go to work the next day and go home. She says what are you doing here? She filed a restraining order that I beat her up and she filed for divorce. I am like WTF (I had the feeling someone was hiding in the house so I left, not wanting to get in a fight or have my ass kicked), so I leave and stay with a friend. I get a lawyer and after a few days I get served at work with the restraining order, and they take my concealed carry permit. I ask my lawyer to check about the divorce threat. He found no record so I told him to file and I wanted the kids.
BAM!!! I am now being charged with molesting my three boys any was told to report for questioning. My lawyer said not to go as I would be arrested under suspicion while it all worked out and to plead the 5th as there was no proof.
Kids have physicals to check on things, nothing is found but the judge said since I would not talk he had to error on the side of caution and accepted what the bitch said. Restraining order extended! I am placed on the child abuse registry.
New girlfriend in the picture, she loves my kids, WE WANT MY KIDS. We get married and she fights like hell to help me get my kids.
Few years go by, WE win custody of my kids. The Ex is investigated and is found abusing the kids via lack of supervision and medical care...She is now on the Child Abuse Registry X3. She appeals that ruling and looses.
My new wife and I have had custody of my kids for 9 years now. The bitch pays me child support. She worked in the health care field. Since she is on the abuse register, she lost all licenses to care for anyone, and can no longer work in any field where she is responsible for the care of others. The cunt now bakes cakes for Wal-mart.

You can win in cases like this, but if you don't have a good lawyer and do all the research and foot work like we did, the system is biased against the man. You are wrong until you prove you are right.
THE SYSTEM IS FUCKED! But I fought against it. It cost me a lot of money, but thanks to the research and foot work of my now current wife, there would of been no chance in hell I could of won. Even the DHS supervisor said in his 19 years of working in DHS, I was the first case where he ruled against the mother in favor of the father...It sucks but that is the fact Jack.

 

[420OldSchoolDJ420]

woman have too much power.. Period.

 

[nickfury510]

Bro, I am a member of that club! Trying to make a long story short, Wife at the time and I got into a heated argument. It was bad but not physical. I go to work the next day and go home. She says what are you doing here? She filed a restraining order that I beat her up and she filed for divorce. I am like WTF (I had the feeling someone was hiding in the house so I left, not wanting to get in a fight or have my ass kicked), so I leave and stay with a friend. I get a lawyer and after a few days I get served at work with the restraining order, and they take my concealed carry permit. I ask my lawyer to check about the divorce threat. He found no record so I told him to file and I wanted the kids.
BAM!!! I am now being charged with molesting my three boys any was told to report for questioning. My lawyer said not to go as I would be arrested under suspicion while it all worked out and to plead the 5th as there was no proof.
Kids have physicals to check on things, nothing is found but the judge said since I would not talk he had to error on the side of caution and accepted what the bitch said. Restraining order extended! I am placed on the child abuse registry.
New girlfriend in the picture, she loves my kids, WE WANT MY KIDS. We get married and she fights like hell to help me get my kids.
Few years go by, WE win custody of my kids. The Ex is investigated and is found abusing the kids via lack of supervision and medical care...She is now on the Child Abuse Registry X3. She appeals that ruling and looses.
My new wife and I have had custody of my kids for 9 years now. The bitch pays me child support. She worked in the health care field. Since she is on the abuse register, she lost all licenses to care for anyone, and can no longer work in any field where she is responsible for the care of others. The cunt now bakes cakes for Wal-mart.

You can win in cases like this, but if you don't have a good lawyer and do all the research and foot work like we did, the system is biased against the man. You are wrong until you prove you are right.
THE SYSTEM IS FUCKED! But I fought against it. It cost me a lot of money, but thanks to the research and foot work of my now current wife, there would of been no chance in hell I could of won. Even the DHS supervisor said in his 19 years of working in DHS, I was the first case where he ruled against the mother in favor of the father...It sucks but that is the fact Jack.

i look to you in hope that some day i can be as patient and smart as people like you. im the type of guy that looses his mind at shit like that and ends up making myself out to be the bad guy when i started on the goodfoot. im sorry to hear you had to go through that. but you are an example that a clear head an persverence can go far.....

 

[420OldSchoolDJ420]

yea anger management is a bitch... Especially when you are 100% in the right.. The worst thing in the world is to have to shut up and take shit from people that are 100% wrong.. Usually its the court system or cops that make this the most apparent.

 

[Dirty Harry]

DOCUMENT DOCUMENT AND DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!
Record all the time you spend with your kids during visitation. Record all expenses. If they show up with marks or bruises, take pics and record everything!

Here is a site to help separated dads...

http://deltabravo.net/

They have a time tracker spread sheet to help you. Your tell it the agreed visitation times, and then enter when you actually have your kids. It will show trends of missed visitation, extra visitation, everything.
When I went to court, I had the whole year on record to give the judge, including notes and pics of the condition of the kids when I got them.

The EX only had what she remembered. Records mean everything!

 

[gogrow]

DOCUMENT DOCUMENT AND DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!
Record all the time you spend with your kids during visitation. Record all expenses. If they show up with marks or bruises, take pics and record everything!

Here is a site to help separated dads...

http://deltabravo.net/

They have a time tracker spread sheet to help you. Your tell it the agreed visitation times, and then enter when you actually have your kids. It will show trends of missed visitation, extra visitation, everything.
When I went to court, I had the whole year on record to give the judge, including notes and pics of the condition of the kids when I got them.

The EX only had what she remembered. Records mean everything!

after reading this, I have to agree with the previous poster;... you must have the patience and perseverance of a saint... having a damn good idea what it must have entailed, I dont know if I could have stuck out the time you did without flipping out and doing something completely stupid and detrimental to my situation...

I'd smoke a fatty with you, but I cant from here, so here is some rep with some actual respect behind it.... this one is for you

 

[Dirty Harry]

...I'd smoke a fatty with you, but I cant from here, so here is some rep with some actual respect behind it.... this one is for you

+Rep back at you. Actual respect received and also returned. Courts want facts, you provide them with overkill, you look good. My wife and myself have met my lawyer at the steps of the court house a few times. We ask whats up? He said I need to get copies of XXXX for your case. We both said thats what we are doing, here is what you need.
Learn how the system works, and let it work for you. If you work against the system, you are hosed. It's a dance you need to learn. When I got unsupervised visitation of my kids, I refused to return them. (That is a very iffy personal call on your side) but I said I was willing jail to protect them as I felt they were in immediate danger. That sped up the process, but you need to tread very lightly. You don't want to go overboard and look crazy. In my case, she was a lying nut who could not keep her story straight. All I needed to do was set her up to talk in court, and she hanged herself. Hell, she named my parents as the supervisors when I only had supervised visitation. The judge even did a double take on that one as I was "such an evil risk", but she said she was fine with that...STRIKE 1 on her.

Right now, I am packing a bowl to smoke for you, and I wish you luck with everything. True smoke for you and I wish you the best.

 

[Ronjohn7779]

Who such stupidity. There literally is hundreds of pics of me naked as a baby. Shit most of the time I wanted to be naked LOL. I was baptized naked in front of a hundreds of people...I guess they all were perverts.....

 

[420OldSchoolDJ420]

honestly when my daughter was 2 and under she was prolly running around the house naked more than clothed.. It was actually kinda funny..Only pervs think that nudity at that young of an age is sexual in any way.

 

[DoeEyed]

The system IS corrupt. In a big way. In my state they tear families apart all the time. Several years ago, I left for half a day or so to run errands - my kids were then 13 and 14. Old enough to be in the house without constant supervision, one would think. Anyway - oldest had called my cousin and was just bitching in general, about how horrible I am, don't you know I was ruining her life (hey - you're not doin a good job unless they say they hate you lol). Well I dunno what my cousin said to his mom, but, my aunt hates my guts, and she called DHS AND the police, told 'em that my kids were alone and that their mother had abandoned them and wasn't coming back. So imagine this...I get home - no kids, all my pets are also gone, and nothing showing what happened. These people took her at her word - DHS stuck my kids in the juvinile shelter, police had humane society take my animals, and it took me 2 and a half years to get the fuckers out of our lives again when they had NOTHING. And apparently - it's considered neglect in my state, if you leave any child under the age of 18 alone without adult supervision, if someone reports it.
So yeah - the government has gone waaaaaaay too far.

 

[420OldSchoolDJ420]

The system IS corrupt. In a big way. In my state they tear families apart all the time. Several years ago, I left for half a day or so to run errands - my kids were then 13 and 14. Old enough to be in the house without constant supervision, one would think. Anyway - oldest had called my cousin and was just bitching in general, about how horrible I am, don't you know I was ruining her life (hey - you're not doin a good job unless they say they hate you lol). Well I dunno what my cousin said to his mom, but, my aunt hates my guts, and she called DHS AND the police, told 'em that my kids were alone and that their mother had abandoned them and wasn't coming back. So imagine this...I get home - no kids, all my pets are also gone, and nothing showing what happened. These people took her at her word - DHS stuck my kids in the juvinile shelter, police had humane society take my animals, and it took me 2 and a half years to get the fuckers out of our lives again when they had NOTHING. And apparently - it's considered neglect in my state, if you leave any child under the age of 18 alone without adult supervision, if someone reports it.
So yeah - the government has gone waaaaaaay too far.

wow r u serious? WTF? No one there ever heard of "latch key kids" then I suppose.. so wrong on so many levels.. I am sorry for your troubles bro.

 

[DoeEyed]

wow r u serious? WTF? No one there ever heard of "latch key kids" then I suppose.. so wrong on so many levels.. I am sorry for your troubles bro.

Dead serious - man they do it to families ALL THE TIME here. Even wrote to the federal branch of family services complaining - got a letter back saying they don't get involved in state matters.