That's definitely completely fair how you felt. I think she's trying to get a rise out of you, either that or doesn't understand/appreciate how important the time you do have with your son is.
She should know the last person you want to see is him I'm sure.
I never had a problem with them being at his practices or games but that time on the ice is mine. I think you hit the nail right on the head with her trying to get a reaction. She know's I've had a violent past and would throw hands at a seconds notice if I felt it was my only option because I was always to proud to walk away. I have changed since I left her and knew if I didn't get out of there I might high stick this guy right across the face. He is the guy I had to call DCFS on because he was yelling and cussing at my son, and at his mother in front of my son. I have a very low opnion of him and this has made it worse.
man that sucks, just a lack of common courtesy. good on you for not losing the plot man it must have been hard to keep cool. and on the DQ well it sounds like you've got plenty time to work that out your body.
man the more reports i hear of the dq the more impatient i get hahaa
It was an in your face insult. Not even a phone call to say "I know you can't make it to all practices, would it be ok if Joel stepped out on the ice to help when your not there. I would have said yes because it's about my son not him, and he knows a lot about hockey so why not let him help when I'm not there. But to do this is just another tally on her gone to far list.....
The DQ#5 was incredible! I seriously felt like I had done a line! I was supper pissed and knew there was nothing in my med cab that could effect me immediately so I caved. It wasn't even totally dry and I didn't finish the bong, I took 3-4 hits from it but my lungs can't handle it like it could when I was smoking every day. I was still feeling it when I finally went to bed 5 hours later. That rocks!!!
Hey there 5. Wow that hurt. You did all the right things. Trust me, I can relate. And bro, try and lose the guilt about dipping in. Hopefully that helped you out. And from what I've heard, there are a number of over the counter products that you can take the week before a piss test.
Thanks Highlander. It's good to know I can vent to people that understand. As I stated above the old me would have put my hockey stick through his jaw. I knew I had to leave or risk letting it build up to the point I messed up and ruined any chance of getting my son back. I've got some stuff on my shopping list already. I won't be dipping back in and hope the job comes, or doesn't, quickly.....
puff.. puff.. pass out.....
