tahoe58
Well-Known Member
hey...thanks. yea I have certainly had some interesting experiences in the recent past - lost my mom, my dad, my 17 yr marriage and forced into bankruptcy (divorce) all in four years. Coming out of that wormhole now and life is good....very good indeed. One foot in front of the other. sometimes ur forced in a direction you must go. can't change anything by digging a deeper hole in the same place. Focus on what's good. no one can take my kids or my career. That's all I was left with. Focus on what makes you swell with pride. I read a cool book a while back - the Four Agreements - (1) use your word wisely and with integrity (2) never take anything personal (its always their stuff and a projection of their reality, not yours) (3) don't assume anything and (4) always do your best. They have helped me tremendously through my journey. and yes you are totally right - it is a phase, anotehr test of what ur made of.....it will cycle - guaranteed - it will always cycle - even when on the up - you can expect there will be more bumps - but the better you get at dealing with the bumps - the less they will become bumps. Take care, and best wishes!