It's all good man. I was the same way the first time around in pollinating too. But just know this - a male that's just barely starting to throw pollen isn't going to mess up your crop that much at all. I used to think that if one pod opened up the whole lot would be seeded. Well, after purposely seeding my plants with pollen by hand AND having a throwing male in there for a couple of days too long, let me tell you seeds are not THAT easily made. lol I didn't get near the amount of seeds I thought I would, which is actually a good thing since I did get enough. But it's a lot less scary than what you prob think right now. I almost wish I would have gotten more.
Just remember this - 1 pollen grain to 1 pistil = 1 seed. So if one pollen sac opens and releases, oh I don't know let's say 50 grains of pollen, AND all 50 grains meet up with and land on a waiting pistil/calyx, you're looking at 50 seeds. Not a whole lot really, especially when you consider that some of that pollen won't even hit a pistil and even then when it does it could be non-viable.