Spanking Kids

[i heartmj]

and I got my ass beat by my father for all types of shit. I got beat with a bamboo bow from a bow and arrow set when I was 10. I got beat with a liquorice rope when I was 9. you name it I was beat with it. most of them were deserved.. I admit. but spanking a 1 y/o is insane

 

[i heartmj]

Sometimes kids need a good smack to remind them to shape up. Don't beat your kids, just provide them with some negative reinforcement when they act poorly. Trying to discipline your kids through mind games isn't as efficient as a quick slap on the ass, and it strains your parent-child relationship. Just be smart about spanks..

I second this.

 

[OutDaCloset]

i agree with spanking conditionally. if the child is under 2 years old spanking is not viable, meaning the child isn't old enough to recognize good from bad, therefore renders a spanking useless. also there is a distinct difference between spanking and beating, recognize the difference people. Spanking is dealing physical force while stating why ur doin it. beating is just like "come here" smack smack. No child has ever benefited from being beaten, but trust me spanking goes a long way, i know from experience. Man i was a bad ass little kid, so spankings were nothing i was unfamiliar with.

 

[i heartmj]

Some people are emotionally fucked up from beatings/spankings when they get older and others are not. It's all about a strong mental health I suppose.. and will power to succeed.

 

[Silky Shagsalot]

i haven't read all of the posts, but i have some experience with this, lol. some kids don't need spanking, some do. when i was a kid, i needed spanking, and got it! some kids will start crying from a firm talk, these kids don't need spanking! i think the problem these days is with the parents. you can't let a kid run wild till he's 15, and then try and discipline him. i see these idiots on all of these stupid shows all the time! oprah, phil, etc. discipline needs to start at a very young age. you owe it to your kids to teach them right from wrong. you can't cheat on your taxes, and tell your kids not to cheat. they'll know you're full of shit!

 

[tnrtinr]

Who the fuck are you to judge me as a parent.
fucking douchebag

Because of your poor parenting; I am a douchebag?

Would you let me spank your kid?

 

[poopoo1964]

My father beat my ass good for STUPID things I did. But Not everything I did....
And I learned from those things.
Best life lesson about peoples feelings and respect he ever taught me.

I stole some cash ($ 50.00 bucks) from him I knew he was hiding from MOMMY for fun money with the guys.
After a general talk session about his feeling and my disrepectfulness. I told him he was over reacting.
and it was NO BIG DEAL.. Remember that part..LOL
YEA, He got my attention. A day latter he found my stash I bought with the cash I stoled and ripped it all up in a pile sprinkled it with dustbunnies and dirt in it and left it in my room on the tray.
I came home expecting to blaze and went APE SHITTING crazy it was all I had. He heard my losing my mind and came running in and started laughing and pointing at me saying YA, YA, that's it. You got it now. That's the way you made me feel stealing my cash the other day..

Thanks, Dad for making me a better person...

 

[SocataSmoker]

I got my fair share and I think I'm very peaceful! At least to other peaceful folk.

Usually, I was always too fast and hid in the bathroom, momma didn't let him bust the door down. But I'm sure he wanted to!

Military fathers rock! lol

 

[Yeah]

I used to spank my son...with my hand. I never used "extension cords/wooden spoons...just my hand.1 whack was good enough.Now...my son is much bigger than me 6'3 220... he would whip my ass. I'll never admit it to him, but he'd kill me...
He didn't turn out to be a serial killer either.

Haha, that sounds like something my mom would say. "I'll never admit it to him, but he'd kill me"

I used to get beat with yard sticks and other random shit like big serving spoons(plastic). Nothing too major, but I was 6'0 and about 180 in 8th grade. So once I got big enough I told her, don't hit me and I wont hit you. I still got the occasional slap across the face, but I always told her she was lucky she's my mom. She's the only person who can get away with it.

 

[stumps]

I got my fair share of ass whoopins. I figured for everyone I got I skated on ten. lol last time was 14 then it was fists. My old man was a nice guy but a shity drunk. 14 was 7th or 8th grade got my first and last hack at school. told the vice princable he tried it again he would be a prick on a stick. That was good for 3 days off.

 

[Padawanbater2]

Does a kid actually think "OK, I understand what I did was wrong, I needed that spanking from my dad to ensure that fact for me"? I mean, do you guys think kids actually benefit from getting spanked? Is there any other way, that might be more effective in more aspects of their development, to get that same message across?

I look around today at the retards society produces and you can't help but think it has a lot to do with a lack of discipline which helps kids develop an understanding of right and wrong early on. Strong structure enforcing the idea of right and wrong within a household I think is the foundation of even your basic codes of morals and ethics. You learn right and wrong as you grow with the help of your parents.

I don't know, I just try to look at it from a child's perspective, how you would put together the lessons that are trying to be conveyed to you via spanking. I've been spanked, probably dozens of times when I was a kid for a lot of different reasons. I don't really ever remember thinking during any of them or after "yeah, now I know what I did was wrong.." - I either already knew what I did was wrong and why it was wrong and chose to do it anyway or the spanking was for some other reason out of my control, like my dad was pissed already (as he had a hot temper when I was younger), or I got in trouble for one of my sisters mistakes. The one thing I do think it does effectively is establish a dominant father figure, and gives a kid a good understanding of the structure of respect, and how it applies to other people, including your mother, brothers, sisters, and friends.

Anyway, this article seems to be saying otherwise. Maybe there are other, more important aspects to a kids development, instead of whether or not they might be a little aggressive, because, as pointed out, plenty of us have been spanked ourselves and we don't murder people, we're happy little potheads without a violent bone in our body...

 

[CdnBud]

Because of your poor parenting; I am a douchebag?

Would you let me spank your kid?

Listen rin tin tin....poor parenting??....you are an ass.
If you would touch my kid I would fuck you up so much you would wish you were dead. yes. you are definitely a douchebag.

 

[ImTheFireMan]

i remember gettin my ass whooped with those rubber thong sandles.
shit hurt and i would be sent to my room afterward.
i turned out alright i think.
i'm have no kids so i cant give an opinion as parent.
i wouldnt say its wrong as long as you're not abusing your child.
i spank my dog when she's bad, but shes been good lately.

 

[stumps]

Panda that was well said.
LoL I just typed a story out for like the last half hour. It sucked. I don't understand the mind set that you need to spoil your kids to make them happy. That goes along with the feel good perenting style. sometimes a kid needs a good wack. Sometimes more. Some kids truely don't need it at all.

 

[Don Gin and Ton]

beating your kids is wrong spanking them is fine theres a fine line in there somewhere. i was spanked and would spank my kids no problem anyone want to call me a bad parent. t'aint fuckin jack shit to do with you.

 

[tnrtinr]

If you would touch my kid I would fuck you up so much you would wish you were dead.

So you wouldn't let a stranger spank or even touch your kid - but you find it perfectly acceptable (even defensible) to assault your own child? I wouldn't hit my dog, let alone my own flesh and blood. I do find it funny that now that your son can give you a run for your money you have modified your parenting techniques in the interest of self preservation (although it should have been you behavior modification technique all along).

There are no double standards in my home. I would never do anything to my son that I wouldn't allow anyone else on the planet to do.

Let's get something straight tough-guy; you wouldn't fuck anything up. The only practice you have had at beating ass is your DEFENSELESS child YEARS AGO. If you think at 6'3" 220 your son can kill you - I'd be a tall glass of water for him; let alone you.

 

[CdnBud]

whatever....

 

[goten]

i got 3 kids , and when they act a fool they get a whippin...

but i only spank them with my hand i never hit them any else besides their but...

they are good kids so far i really never have to spank them...

i got the shit beat out of me by my dad and it didnt do me no good

i still got into trouble , didnt finish high school and went to prison..

so i dont beleive that spanking it self works...

i think it might be on a more emotional level with them...

i punish them but i still show effection to them and i cant never let them be grounded for a long period at a time..

i try not to spank them anymore and just talk to them about what they did and send them to their room or something now.

every now and then it gets to that point to where i got to spank them and they listen for a little while

then go back to their same ol shit....oh well...i got to just keep doing the best i can......

 

[CrackerJax]

I won't even lay a hand on any of my dogs.... if you have to hit....u've failed. My dogs cannot comprehend my words...but I always get the message across by visual looks and example. I keep repeating until they get it.

I won't ever lay a hand on a human being that hasn't already telegraphed an intent to lay a hand on me.
That being said, a boy scout did grab my sleeve last year as I was walking out of a store..... I cleaned his clock but good. I gave him a quick roundhouse and head locked him till he passed out. F'n boy scouts....touch me will they....lesson learned.

 

[juleswinnfield]

I won't even lay a hand on any of my dogs.... if you have to hit....u've failed. My dogs cannot comprehend my words...but I always get the message across by visual looks and example. I keep repeating until they get it.

You must have quite the stink eye haha. If my dog knows someones pissed off he'll find someway to make things worse.