bringing a baby into this world while growing. opinions please?

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BongBitchh420

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yeah. he is sitting right beside me as i am writing all of this and reading every single thing that you guys are saying.
i just gave him a choice to tear it down and keep this house clean because my childs life depends on it. or he can let me move back into my parents house with the kid and he wont be able to have the child over here.
an he just said, well leave then. he is really stuck on this wanting to grow his own weed thing.
 
sambo020482

sambo020482

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well if thats the case tell him to stop fucking around, move urself off to ya folks n tell him to set the whole fuckin house up or at least a room or 2 that way you n ya kid are in no danger n when harvest time comes around ur at least have something worth the risk.
 
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707Napacalibomb

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Aint nothin worth getting fucked like the cops would do you. If you are caught growing one plant in an illegal area/state the fees, expenses, and stress is exponential what you could possibly benefit, I know. Also if you have a number of friends that know about you are off to a bad start. Plus your parents will come over to see the kid and you have too many variables and not enough potential gain. I would say make him finish the plants over at one of the many friends that know and start your family off right. unless he is retarded it should be fine with him
 
Oldreefer

Oldreefer

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If he is doing THAT much research, he will have found that it takes a WHOLE LOT more than a closet grow to make any money and sustaining it is a prob. Also, weed grows by itself....how long does it take to water a few plants anyway....
Again, my empathy is with you but I'd have very little patience with someone like your bf who doesn't see the long term probs that go along with HIS way of thinking. It appears he's looking for some kind of reward from his friends (yeah right) rather than the pleasure of having a fam. We all have selfish reasons for things sometimes, but your bfs behavior is a little much in the great scheme of things................Good luck...YOU are gonna need it.
 
jas6118

jas6118

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well if thats the case tell him to stop fucking around, move urself off to ya folks n tell him to set the whole fuckin house up or at least a room or 2 that way you n ya kid are in no danger n when harvest time comes around ur at least have something worth the risk.
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Move out with the kid and do as stated above. Gonna risk PRISON in Ill might as well make it worth it. I say 99 plants, with you at your folks.
 
anonymous4289

anonymous4289

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BongBitchh420 said:
i would just like to know what you guys would do in a situation like this where the baby needs to come first instead of the plants.
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i believe you answered your own question. i think your boyfriend needs to realize that as well. like someone else already said, seems like you're a bit too tolerant of this. it's really not worth the risk when your own child is involved. after contemplating the issue it will only be so much worse if something bad does happen. just my honest opinion.
 
fishing420stoner

fishing420stoner

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i smoke all the time, my son was a premie at 26 weeks, we are lucky to even have him. he weighed one pound 5 ounces at birth( plants yield more than that) I have NEVER smoked in the house just bc of giving him a fair chance in living a normal kid life!

he is now 2 and healthy but i smoke outside, garage, car, places where it will never affect him.

my grow is in a locked close behind heavy furnatire something he will never get to.

I think she should if you dont get a damn job and quit growing . fuck your in Illiones go grow outside you have till september.


point being, tell this guy to look at this, YOU ARE A DEUSCHE AND THE KIND OF GUY WHY POT IS WRONG IN SO MANY EYES> STOP GROWING OR GO STEALTH. IT WILL SAVE YOU, MONEY, TIME, A WOMAN, YOUR CHILD, ATTORNEYS FEES, GAS FOR MOVING YOUR LADY OUT and alot more ( YOUR BETTER OFF MOVING OUT ANYWAYS LET HIM PAY FOR SOME THINGS)
 
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BongBitchh420

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yes. i have been telling him since day one not to do this shit. but after a while, i kinda said whatever to it because i figured that he is gonna do it anyways.
so now that i have been telling him to take it down, its all my fault and im the bad guy. but whatever.
he just doesnt realize that his girlfriend or AT LEAST his child should be the people coming first.
oh well, im taking everyones advice. i guess its just a newsflash to me. im moving to my parents house.
thank you guys.
 
jas6118

jas6118

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uck your in Illiones go grow outside you have till september.
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Ya, that's right, lots of open spaces in the Ill country side. Check out the guerrilla grows on this site.
 
DiZi

DiZi

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Bongbitch, tell your guy we all understand the fun and rush about growing, but i think he should understand something now that will apply for him for the rest of his life (since you guys are having a baby): THE KID WILL ALWAYS COME FIRST! i would or maybe just keep one plant for my personal stash,destroy the rest and tell everyone else i killed all the plants. Or give them to my friends so they will grow it, but I wouldnt under no circumstance keep growing and take a big chance like that.it's not worth it at all.
personally i would destroy them all.

Anyways, as other people said before getting a job is more important then anything right now. so start moving.


p.s. Congrats with the baby...
 
newbud123

newbud123

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there will be allways weed about but at the end of the day its all about the kid weed or the kid its a a hard one..... the kid any day of the week
 
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Prot3us1`

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Its a sad thing for sure. :(

dude i hope you make this right..sounds like you had a good girl here...

Do you want your kid to think you cared more about a few shitty weed plants than your own flesh and blood..shit
 
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