male for sure
Male, hands down.
Well its too late now.separate it now, you dont HAVE to kill it just make sure you clean yourself of the pollen off of your clothes/body when you fuck with the male. Practice topping/fimming or just generally trying to fuck it up and see it's reaction. It can build some experiance.
Its cool bro fingers are crossed for the other twodefinitely male sorry. i had a monster plant and it turned male it was a sad day