This may be a little deep for a stoned forum, but do you ever get the feeling your "friends" use you for bud? Like everyone thinks you're awesome when you've got a big stash and you're generous. I've always believe in pot karma, so if I have a friend who I know smokes and they're out, of course I'm going to offer to smoke them out...in hopes that one day when I'm in that situation they (or someone else) will return the favor and all will be right in the universe. Maybe I just have shitty friends, but since I've been staying home with my son, and therefore don't have a ton of $ for pot, I've been seeing a hell of a lot less of them.
I'm in the middle of a grow and I'm wondering, in this situation, would you rather have fair-weather friends or live a lonely life? I haven't even told my closest friends about my grow because I don't want them showing up in 2 months when I'm getting ready to harvest acting like we're tight.
I live in a midwestern state where if you say the wrong thing about smoke to the wrong person you're likely to get your ass busted, so how do you make friends with less douchey smokers when you're only links to the stoner community are assholes?